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Recent content by Natalie+

  1. Natalie+

    Is this comment inappropriate in your opinion?

    Even if you are overreacting a bit or the context would make it less creepy, it would be a good idea to see a different psychologist if you are getting uncomfortable around your current one for any reason. A psychologist is supposed to help you and be a safe person for you to go to. If you are...
  2. Natalie+

    Being physical while engaged?

    lol no it would be someone in our church who does the counselings regularly probably, or at our acquantince's church
  3. Natalie+

    Being physical while engaged?

    Yes, we talked about it today, we discussed getting married sooner and see that the best option is for us to wait. And yeah when we are thinking it's going to be one more year it seems really long but then we look back at last year and see that it feels like a flash... so we think we'll be okay...
  4. Natalie+

    Being physical while engaged?

    Hmm I hadn't thought of how that might be honoring our parents more than God! Although, if we're talking about "cutting the cord", being married and living in their separate households means that we still would have to follow them and be under them. So getting married secretly isn't going to...
  5. Natalie+

    Being physical while engaged?

    Yes he is Christian too. I grew up in church in my childhood, but stopped going until I was 19 and was saved. He became Christian at 20. I didn't regularly attend church until I met him, he has strengthened my relationship with God many ways before we started being physical, we didn't struggle...
  6. Natalie+

    Being physical while engaged?

    We are not living together until we get married. The reason we don't get married now isn't because of wedding costs (we aren't hung up on a big wedding). It's because he is in school to become a math teacher, his last semester is loaded with classes and student teaching, which will mean he can...
  7. Natalie+

    Being physical while engaged?

    I am engaged and getting married in about a year. My fiance and I are physical with each other and I am not sure what to do... I used to feel bad when we got more physical but now I don't, but during church when they mention sin in the back of my mind I feel something saying "sin, like what you...
  8. Natalie+

    Which of these random things do you prefer?

    I think squashing lemons on the pavement for a living sounds fun and fulfilling! :D
  9. Natalie+

    Ten Facts About You...

    lol I love the things that make me laugh at myself like that
  10. Natalie+

    The Perfect Husband

    Haha wasn't expecting that last part
  11. Natalie+

    Things you think are beautiful ! (7)

    Clouds! Like a new painting from God in the sky each day.
  12. Natalie+

    Would someone be my penpal?

    Hello, I'm a 21 year old female from Texas. I'd really like a penpal, someone who shares my faith that I can talk to. I have fairly varied interests, and I like hearing the different things others do even if I don't know much about it (it's fun to learn lol). I'm kind of at a rut in my life...
  13. Natalie+

    If you were married, would you go to an adult store?

    I've never been to a "naughty" type store. But my friend told me she and her husband went to a Condom Sense once to look around. They're never going back because there were nude posters all around, and worst of all demonstration videos playing on large TV screens with real actors. They...
  14. Natalie+

    Would marry someone outside your race?

    Yes of course I would! If I met them and talked with them, and we got along and were interested in each other, skin tone or eye shape isn't going to stop me. I tend to find other ethnicites from my own (I'm white) more attractive anyway. The only thing I've ever considered might hinder a...