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Recent content by nahMish

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    Feel like im drowning in my mistake

    There's nothing more destructive than a three person love triangle. its not good..its not biblical and it hurts your marriage. your husband knows about it (well, not all the details but he knows about this guy). You say you feel distant from your husband....would you want to open up your heart...
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    Ugly Bride on Wedding Day

    I felt down during the first months of marriage. That was because all of a sudden I was a wife and there was less attention on me (and no, before anyone tells me I am self centred and selfish- I am not). I had to adjust to cleaning toilets and washing my husbands underwear and socks... normal...
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    Prayer for Dr John Hammond

    his sermon at the youth rally was REALLY fantastic, my boyfriend and i have managed to remember a lot of it and it was 2 months or so ago. he has been on the prayer list at our church and have been trying to remember him in our prayers.
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    The Clear Word

    the clear word is biased- versions like NIV have had multiple people check & recheck it prior to printing. the clear word doesnt: simple. the person who wrote the clear word paraphrased it for himself and there isnt anything wrong with that- we all need to paraphrase the bible in our own private...
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    Your First Kiss....

    SPIN THE BOTTLE !!! BUT it was ruined by his mouth lurching towards mine at a rapid pace and instead of trying to keep his saliva in his mouth...it went ALL over my face. felt like a slug. anyway, enough details. it makes me smile and cringe at the same time cos we are really good friends now...
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    Girls/Young Women in the Seventh Day Adventist Church

    my friends and i are DEFINATELY NOT SHY !!!! maybe you've just met a certain 'type' of personality...i dont care who i meet or talk to-i'll talk to anyone about anything... i have found some girls are more on the shy side, but thats probably because of fewer opportunities to mix with different...
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    Leaving rough edges and untied ends.

    sometimes a break is what you need. may not be an eternal BREAK..my man & i were apart for a year- i had the best year: i grew up, i dated a few other people, i got closer to God...and eventually after promising myself i would NEVER go there again, we are back together and VERY HAPPY. Trust...
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    Disabled Fiance' and Me!

    hey, this goes both ways..yes, it may "appear" to be selfish saying all these things, but remember- being a carer for someone with a disability (depending on what nature and the effect that it has) is NOT EASY. It is TOTALLY reasonable to struggle with this: its more than just marrying this...
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    Rick Warren's theology: Larry King interview and purpose driven life error

    i totally disagree with Rick Warren being a suppposed ' man-server' not "God-server". sorry, but thats ridiculous. have a read of his life and other writings-. Go and read up on him so you can make an accurate opinion,. we CANNOT serve God in the flesh here on earth: we serve him through the...
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    The defilement of the Santuary in Daniel 8:14; 2,300 evenings and mornings..

    sorry to bust your bubble, but in heaven you might be neighbours... ADVENTISTS DO NOT HATE CATHOLICS, OR CATHOLICISM, OR THE POPE, THE VATICAN, OR THE LOCAL CATHOLIC CHURCH IN MY TOWN...OR ANYONE ELSE THATS RELATED TO IT. please..... i really CANNOT STAND IT when people "group" a...
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    Just read a horrible story..

    Dont trust everything that you read... It Is Written is based on spreading the gospel: that is their mission- there is most likely far more to this story than that link. just like you can't go and photocopy someone's book and use it, the principle still applies.
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    Who are the sheep and who are the goats?

    " what must we do to do the work God requires?" " the work of God is this: TO BELIEVE in the one he has sent."- JOHN 6:29 "You worship what YOU DO NOT KNOW, we KNOW what we worship, for salvation is of the Jews. But the hour is coming and now is when the TRUE worshippers will worship the...
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    There is far too much seeking for inner safety. We need to win others to Jesus.

    ive been thinking about this lately a lot too... ive recently heard a lot of sermons on NOT going round and doing the 'acting' like a christian- doing the preaching when you dont really believe it...you have to have the RELATIONSHIP first, or else you are batting for the other team..and God sees...
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    The harlot of Babylon

    this has been sitting on my mind recently: "You worship what YOU DO NOT KNOW, we KNOW what we worship, for salvation is of the Jews. But the hour is coming and now is when the TRUE worshippers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father is seeking such to worship him." -john...
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    The harlot of Babylon

    some things to consider: * china is developing RAPIDLY at the moment..if you want more detail- google china's economy & note how much wealth they are accumulating..i have NO doubt that they will overcome america within 20 years in terms of wealth or whatever. * america owes BILLIONS to overseas...