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Recent content by n3w3xp

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    Who should do it?

    My personal opinion would also be the man proposing. The man is supposed to be the provider and protector. How is an engagement supposed to say that he is "protecting" and "providing" for you? Well, it definitely states the start of your new life together as husband and wife. Another point...
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    Birthdays of S/O

    jenptcfan is absolutely correct!!! Everyone has different needs to feel loved. I can't remember what the 5th need is either!=( My suggestion would be to talk with your boyfriend and see how he feels about birthdays and gift givings. I would also feel hurt if my significant other didn't do...
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    Getting over a man

    To me, I personally feel better communicating with God Himself rather than friends or family. Write a letter to God if needed, and just spill your guts out. 1.) Keep yourself BUSY with things you've been wanting to do but couldn't w/a sig other. 2.) Hang out with family and friends. 3.)...
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    does he like me

    How do you show a guy that you are also like him? I'm interested in tips to show a guy that we're interested, but won't ask him out on a date or anything like that.
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    What is Love?

    I have a friend who has been with her current boyfriend for I believe 3 years now... I asked her a while back, about saying the "L" word to each other. She told me that when her and her bf said it in the beginning it was just a thing to say because you're "supposed" to say it when you're in a...
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    An EXTREMELY long story

    trying so hard, I completely agree with jenptcfan... people in love with being in love rather than falling in love with that person. I still haven't found the "solution" to fixing a situation like yours. What's best or right to do? Get over the ex, and get to know yourself and who you really...
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    waiting to kiss

    I support your decision in not kissing if that's the decision both of you have made together. I agree, the physical closeness can often cloud one's mind and feelings as to whether or not it's real love or just a superficial physical attraction. Good luck with your relationship! I'm glad that...
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    How long before popping the question?

    Yeah, there's probably not a set amount of time before one should pop the question. Usually it depends on how the feeling is between the couple, along with other factors in the relationship (finances, living, career, etc.) Good luck if you decide to do it soon!
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    Suggestions for Wedding Songs?

    Hahah... I don't think you're hallucinating, but I have also heard the male voice too. I like the Sara Evans version more though...
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    Suggestions for Wedding Songs?

    Joy, "I Could Not Ask For More" by Sara Evans... another great country song! Hey, how about "My Valentine"!?
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    Suggestions for Wedding Songs?

    George Strait: "I Cross My Heart" Tim McGraw & Faith Hill: "It's Your Love" Shania Twain: "From This Moment"
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    Thinking about moving in before marriage...

    John...I think I am out of the loop here, but you say "girlfriend", so does that mean you are with the girlfriend that has a mother that you don't like and you say is controlling of your relationship?
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    Help Wanted: Need Ideas for my girlfriend's birthday

    hmm..about that cookie idea, check out www.cookiedbydesign.com they have really neat cookie baskets to send. it's really cute and special!
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    Why can't men be straight.

    Why are men afraid to show their true colors? Are there any general indications of how a man truly feels?
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    wedding date fiasco

    Cammie, How did you do that??? What area of the US are you in?