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Recent content by MyStruggle

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    Haunted by my wife's sexual past..

    As has been stated, he has no need to forgive her. SHe hasn't sinned against him, she has done what she chose to with her body. It doesn't matter if she had sex with one guy or one thousand, the OP chose to marry her and needs to accept that. The OP is clearly jealous and insecure wondering if...
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    Wife out with co-workers- okay or concern?

    I don't buy it. You choose to go or not, so commit to your decision.
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    Wife out with co-workers- okay or concern?

    Well then she just shouldn't go out. Seriously, you make a choice to go out and socialise or stay at home texting your husband, it's not hard to make a decision and stick to it. I'm not saying she has to go out and get drunk with the work guys but if she wants to be taken seriously by her peers...
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    Wife out with co-workers- okay or concern?

    What a load of rubbish. If you choose to go to a social function, don't be so rude and spend the night on your phone. The OP wasn't concerned about safety, he was being possessive. If you truly trust someone you let them make their own choices and not try to pressure them or make them feel bad.
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    is masturbation wrong? need answers for a mens meeting.

    There is nothing wrong with masturbation itself, it is entirely healthy. A mans body needs to have some sort of sexual release to prevent prostate cancer. God gave men certain urges for a reason.
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    Who'd You Choose: Girl Who Messed Up Sexually but Repented..or the One ALWAYS Clean?

    First of all, rape is not sexual misconduct and I am appalled that you would lump it in with prostitution. Second, I wouldn't choose a virgin over a woman with sexual experience. Having a healthy sex life is critical in a marriage. I would want a woman who enjoys sex and knows what she wants...
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    Wife out with co-workers- okay or concern?

    The OP needs to stop being so possessive, give her some breathing space. She hasn't done anything wrong. OP also shouldn't have been bugging her with messages every 20 minutes. I hate it when people at a social function can't get off their phone. What sort of message does it send - I have...
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    Fantasies about my wife

    For years I have struggled with a fantasy to see my wife with other men. I don't know where it came from and I can't get the thoughts out of my head no matter how much I pray. I have tried to stop these thoughts but over time I have encouraged certain things from her so that my fantasy might...
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