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Recent content by MsKT

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    Intimacy issues and divorce

    Ive i really do believe he is attracted to me and our libido levels were always in sync until a few years ago it just became such a struggle for me to get into it I really don’t know why but I never held it against him if he wanted to please his self as long as he remained faithful to me. He...
  2. M

    Intimacy issues and divorce

    I agree Raymond and this is where I’m confused. How do I highlight my disapproval of his interest in self satisfaction when I may be the direct cause of it? We were always engaged very much to each other’s needs but mine have disappeared so the mutual aspect is somewhat imbalanced. And this...
  3. M

    Intimacy issues and divorce

    Thank you for the support and prayers. Since our daughter was born my libido bottomed out and mood swings became a pattern with me as well. I feel somewhat responsible for him drifting away sexually. His interest in being sexual with me diminished to almost non existent but was acceptable...
  4. M

    Intimacy issues and divorce

    I think he does now but in the past he was against it. And I don’t watch it either
  5. M

    Intimacy issues and divorce

    It’s not that I don’t enjoy it. Everything is ok when the time comes but I just have no interest in sex at all and I don’t know why. He pleases me very well every time we’re intimate i [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] but sex is mostly done to satisfy his needs. I can honestly go without it. He says that he wants me to...
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    Intimacy issues and divorce

    My husband of 10 years no longer is interested in becoming intimate with me. He says that his sexual needs exceed my capabilities and comfort level. He told me yesterday he was considering divorce or at least a separation. We have done counseling at our old church but he’s not interested in...