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Recent content by Moonshade

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    Belief-O-Matic Quiz

    1. Mainline to Conservative Christian/Protestant (100%) 2. Orthodox Quaker (93%) 3. Eastern Orthodox (83%) 4. Roman Catholic (83%) 5. Seventh Day Adventist (80%) 6. Mainline to Liberal Christian Protestants (77%) 7. Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (Mormons) (63%) 8. Islam (62%) 9...
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    What school do you go to?

    WooT!!:wave:
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    What school do you go to?

    Salish Kootenai College-- BSN, Nursing
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    Ready to yell "Uncle!" regarding my marriage.

    CJ, I know the pain : ( I will pray for you. Keep on God's path. Last year I was accepted to the university I dreamed of.. it was conditional though. I could take 2 semesters with the class and if anyone dropped out I could slip right in. I turned down a for sure opportunity because I prayed...
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    Confused???

    Thanks all for your words of wisdom. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger, right? My husband has been with my friend every weekend since the end of June. I was sad to find out on our anniversay (July 24) he was with my friend in a hotel in another town (this was before I found out he was with...
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    Confused???

    Thank you all for the wonderfull advice. I still do not feel much peace but I do see a ray of light I think. I hope that when school starts up again (my last year!) It will help take my mind of things. *Sigh*...... Thanks again everyone, I will pray for all of you!
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    Confused???

    We cannot get a divorce in Montana if you have any assets in both names. I would never consider getting married while still married?? I cannot even barely stomach the thought of ever getting married again if my husband divorces me :(
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    Confused???

    OK, first thanks to all who have responded to me during the past month and for your support. Here is a little background. My husband left me recently for one of my best friends. They have been seeing and sleeping with each other for a little over a month. He told me he wants a divorce and I...
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    giving up, hurt unbearable, HELP ME!!!!!!!!

    "So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous hand." Isaiah 41:10 You will not be alone! God is with you! As for your time alone... My husband walked out on me after 6 years of marriage for one...
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    IS this IT?

    Read the Five Languages of Love (or somthing like that) by Gary Chapman. It makes alot of sense and it seems like it may be worth a shot. Also, I disconected from my husband 5 years ago, we have been married for 6. The other person feels the disconnect I truelly believe. He is now gone. He said...
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    now what?

    We tried councling 2 weeks ago. My husband will not go again.
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    now what?

    Well after sticking with my husband for 6 years (together for 9) and through his bouts of cheating he finally left me for one of my best friends. He walked out yesterday. I feell torn. Do I look forward to the time when he comes crawling back to me wether it is months or years or do I move on...
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    How long do I forgive?

    Thank you all for your words. I do not like to burden anyone with my problems and this is the first time I have talked to anyone about it, except for my husband. We have both been walking zombies for the past two weeks since this last occurance. It has taken a toll on both of us. We cannot...
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    How long do I forgive?

    He has tried running the finances before and almost buried himself! I am scared that he will completely ruin my credit if I let him take over the money! I do not feel like like I deserve any of this, my head says I am stupid for staying but my heart says give my self up to God and he will bless...
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    How long do I forgive?

    I know this sounds like an easy question but I am so lost. My husband has cheated on me several times now including just recently. I did not find out about the times before we were married until after I was married (or I would not have married him). I did what was right when he begged despretly...