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Recent content by mnati21

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    Prayer Please....

    I know there are so many greater things in this world to pray for and focus on, but I ask that you pray for me and my struggle with my relationship with my ex-gf. I have been fighting to love her and show her who I am.....But I am tireing from the roller coaster ride of emotion. She gets close...
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    Help with Trust

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    Need prayer for me and ex-gf

    I ask that y'all pray for my ex-gf who is struggling with emotions and feelings and is really hurting. I have caused her a lot of pain and pray that God will cover her with his grace and show her that he can take her pain away. I ask that you also pray for me as I put my past behind me, that...
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    Update...broken relationship

    Thank you for those of you who have prayed and offered advise for me in my quest to rebuild my broken relationship. Just to update....over the last 2 weeks God has done remarkable things to open my ex's heart to me again. She says there is NO way that she could do what she is doing and feeling...
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    A Simple Truth...

    Seems to me losing focus on God has nothing to do with having the title of "boyfriend or Girlfriend" or "Husband and Wife" but everything to do with "yourself" Has one who has lost focus many times but continued to try to find focus I can only look at myself. The desire to grow closer to God...
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    Trying to understand....

    Guess I said something wrong not to get ANY responses or advise.....
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    Trying to understand....

    actually it was advice for a broken relationship.....
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    Trying to understand....

    Thanks....it is a little farther down the thread list.....called still fighting for g/f or fighting for g/f
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    Trying to understand....

    Some of y'all may have read about me "fighting for my g/f". It has been tough....During last week all our conversations were her being angry, hurt and mad with me...questioning "why & how" venting her anger. I would feel literally "beat up" afterwards. At that time we agreed that after the...
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    Good Devotionals for couples

    Wow, I guess I don't understand some things......why wouldn't a couple do devotionals together. It would seem an important part of their relationship so that they both can grow and learn about GOD together.....We expect couples to sperate that part of their lives and only after they are married...
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    Advise for broken relationship

    Thanks and yes I know it was way more the just 1 mistake....I have acknowledged and apoligized and done all I could to be open and honest about the whole event. I am focusing on God and letting him lead my life the way I always wanted....I am becoming a stronger christian and going to...
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    Advise for broken relationship

    I have only been around her 2 times since we broke up, Saturday will be the 3rd and probably the longest. Laughter is something we did have between each other...I try to be up beat as I feel like a giddy little kid when I see her or she calls. There are some calls where she vents anger and...
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    Advise for broken relationship

    I am 35 and have been married before.....my faith in God is growing, I know he has the power to do all things.....I don't know if she has totally given up.....she hasn't said leave me alone, she does call me and return e-mails....she even invited me to dinner last Sunday, (to see how she felt...
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    Advise for broken relationship

    Thanks for your advise. I guess I don't understand why I must let her go??? Granted I made the mistake but if we were married wouldn't most say try to work it out.....I see her as the one I want to spend the rest of my life with so why not fight for her. I have put the ex-gf in the past...
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    Advise for broken relationship

    Hi, I am new here and need advise from good christian people. Ok, I am 35 and have struggled back in forth with my relationship with God, I am like the prodigal son....I have always wanted to be closer to him and would but then when times were good and would figure I can handle things myself...