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Recent content by MJVLoves2Sing

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    Family or Church matter?

    There is nothing wrong with the girl, she is lovely but she is in a very verbally and emotionally abusive situation at home. It has gone on for years, constantly berating her, calling her stupid, **** for hanging out with guy friends, lesbian for hanging with girls, the list goes on. In the...
  2. M

    Family or Church matter?

    Sorry, I had to post this in two posts to get it all to fit...... The pastor is citing Hebrews 13:17 which says, "Obey your leaders and submit to their authority. They keep watch over you as men who must give an account. Obey them so that their work will be a joy, not a burden, for that would...
  3. M

    Family or Church matter?

    Thank you for responding. I realize I was vague in some areas, I was hoping to keep my post short, ha. In unhealthy I mean they are verbally and emotionally abusive. It has gone on for years, constantly berating her, calling her stupid, tramp for hanging out with guy friends, lesbian for...
  4. M

    Family or Church matter?

    Well I personally don't think it is a sin, but they are saying that by taking her in, against her parents wishes, that we are causing division in the church. That is their grounds for NOT allowing us in ministry and now even in the church. The parents won't give us a reason, they won't speak...
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    Family or Church matter?

    The pastor is citing Hebrews 13:17 says, “Obey your leaders and submit to their authority. They keep watch over you as men who must give an account. Obey them so that their work will be a joy, not a burden, for that would be of no advantage to you.” But I believe this was meant for them to...
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    Family or Church matter?

    If one of the members of your church had an 18 year old daughter (of legal age) who felt she was living in an unhealthy environment at home, and had made it clear for some time to her parents and others that she would be moving out, and the parents had said they were okay with that, came to you...
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    Family or Church matter?

    If one of the members of your church had an 18 year old daughter (of legal age) who felt she was living in an unhealthy environment at home, and had made it clear for some time to her parents and others that she would be moving out, and the parents had said they were okay with that, came to you...