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Recent content by Minoa

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    Had it With my Accusational, Dramatic Hypochrondriac Spouse

    My husband has this and it drives me mad---today he found a new cancer he think he has, and read it's relate to diet, and says "if I get ___ cancer, it's your fault"........beeecause he makes me do all the cooking without exceptions, thus, whatever I make, if he feels anything weird, is my...
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    Spouse's constant sexual innuendos and gas lighting

    no it's okay, I'd be questioning it too, as I still do myself........he's more of a head knowledge know it all than a type that really tries to grasp what is being taught and applying it
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    Spouse's constant sexual innuendos and gas lighting

    he really is immature, I told him he acts like he's never even seen a girl in his life and can't seem to control his reactions to it.....it feels like I married a teenager who has seen a chest for the first time in his life and can't stop staring at me like I'm a tv show....like literally, just...
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    Spouse's constant sexual innuendos and gas lighting

    Help :(? I am not only just feeling annoyed, but I really see my husband as a pest and he thinks he's "a normal healthy man" for being so perverted---I doesn't ever question anything he ever does beyond worldly standards, and he makes excuses for this. To sum him up: I am grossed out paranoid...
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    Husbands feel "entitled" to wife's body

    Yes, he is. I didn't want to post that as it would seem like I was being "racist" but he does use his culture as an excuse, and so he makes his culture into a big problem in this relationship. Instead of being a fair host, he got annoyed at my friend who didn't want to eat with chopsticks---that...
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    Husbands feel "entitled" to wife's body

    I honestly feel in him there is a sort of lust that is offputting, it feels gross and perverted and thus why he probably could not get a girlfriend before---some girls must have seen he was a bit off?. It does not feel like real love, and many times he will find ways to punish me though he...
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    Husbands feel "entitled" to wife's body

    someone gave us a copy, but he has not bothered to read it at all. All he does is quote "respect!" as a command and tells me I should go read it. I've read most of it so far, but it is very hard to "respect" him indeed. I do what I call "basic respect", where even if I am angry, I don't destroy...
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    Husbands feel "entitled" to wife's body

    Yea, he only sees the first part---I don't even know what the second part even means because nobody at church EVER talks about---EVER. Does this mean that we get a say in what his body cannot do to us, or towards other woman? or to getting tattooes, etc? Otherwise, there is no reason for woman...
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    Husbands feel "entitled" to wife's body

    Probably not....he's from a different culture---where woman do all the hard work outside and inside the home, and men get home to sit on their hind ends (SE) and demand food on the table.
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    Husbands feel "entitled" to wife's body

    My husband gropes me a lot, especially no matter what I say about it. I revolt and I tell him "enough" groping my behind (SE), but he does not stop. He says he has his "husband's privledge" to touch his wife---as if I am a thing he earned from his own "hard work" (He is always going on, on and...
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    Knowing about God ≠ knowing God?

    More than reading...you just instead of only talking to yourself in your head, talk to God, ask God to help you, ask him for advice....even though sometimes I admit I feel funny but I just make it a habit and dont always know if its God or my automatic subconscience giving me thoughts or...
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    Husband Calls me "Useless" because I don't pack his work lunch!

    It has been like this way before baby came :(. I found out I was pregnant around week 8 and wasnt sure what to do about it....I literally had left town for 2 weeks to see my family and to get away from him....than I find out I'm pregnant when I got home and struggled with what was the right or...
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    Husband Calls me "Useless" because I don't pack his work lunch!

    He will find some way to rob enjoyment out of my days if I do that :(. He threatened to sell the TV last time and also something else I use in the house. Because most of it was bought or given to him by his family, he figures he can do whatever he wants. He also controls my computer access...I...
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    Husband Calls me "Useless" because I don't pack his work lunch!

    HE wont cook but he will dig around the house to find my personal snack stashes and eat those. It is beyond insulting.....he thinks he "earned" to find and eat them because he "is the breadwinner and pays for car insurance". He is manipulative.
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    Husband Calls me "Useless" because I don't pack his work lunch!

    He bought a pressure cooker but goes on and on about it is my xmas gift and how it make it faster. He won't even bother to put already cooked food back into it though.......it can already be cooked and in the pot but he waits 3 hrs or more until I am free from baby for me to put it on...and...