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Recent content by Michelle1

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    Getting past heartbreak / not trying to save people

    Looking back, I think I may have been targeted. I got sucked in in a few ways. 1. We were friends initially through work. 2. He presented himself as a Christian who had walked away from God for a while and was coming back. These two things made me more vulnerable. My guard was down because I...
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    Getting past heartbreak / not trying to save people

    It is probably safe to say there are contributing factors from childhood. I don't think he will face his problems, what he did to me, pay me back, or contact me ever again. Do you think it is safe and biblical to decide I won't reach out to him (happy birthday, Merry Christmas etc) unless he...
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    Getting past heartbreak / not trying to save people

    From a Christian perspective, have you experienced the compulsion to try to "save" people? What about when this compulsion seems to enable unhealthy relationships? I was stolen from and ghosted last month by a boyfriend of nearly 2 yrs. Looking back, many red flags. He told me a story of...
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    Healthy Boundaries

    Looking for advice on healthy boundaries. 1 Cor 13 "...love keeps no record of wrongs". I struggle understanding this verse plus the idea of "forgive & forget." I need forgiveness and it's better for my own heart to forgive others than to hold a grudge, but the confusion is when someone harms...