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Recent content by mggs

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    Something inspirational

    GUIDANCE Dancing With God When I meditated on the word "Guidance", I kept seeing "dance" at the end of the word. I remember reading that doing God's will is a lot like dancing. When two people try to lead, nothing feels right. The movement doesn't flow with the music, and everything...
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    Need comfort

    Hi tryingtobeagain, Thanks for your response. Just wondering how old your daughter is, and has she developed her permanent coping skills in dealing with Aspergers. My husband is 53, and is fairly set in his ways. He has attempted to change minimally, but has been unsuccessful. This is a form...
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    Need comfort

    So I will probably be divorced soon. I would have never left if I had had a connection with my husband in the beginning. After being separated for approx. 3yrs. thru my therapist, attorney, two nurses, a teacher, and myself doing extensive research that he has Aspergers syndrome. I was always...
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    Scared

    I have to go back to court tomorrow, and am terrified! Could you please pray for me. I'm just scared of the whole divorce process. Thanks
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    Can you help me?

    Can anyone give me information on symptoms of an adult with Asperer's syndrome. I feel my STBX may be afflicted with this, and it was never diagnosed. Are there different degree's of severity in the symptoms, and is one symptom more prevelant than the other. Also, is there anyway I would be able...
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    sick of the emotional crap

    This is long but I hope it helps. A time comes in your life when you finally get it... When in the midst of all your fears and insanity you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere the voice inside your head cries out - ENOUGH!! Enough fighting and crying or struggling to hold on. And, like a...
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    How do you do it?

    :confused: I am going to be getting a divorce soon, and hope to avoid it being messy. I've read some post where people have spent enoromous amounts of money (many thousands) in lawyers fees. Just wondering are you all independently wealthy? Where do you obtain all this money from. I'm just...
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    My husband wants a divorce and won't consider counseling

    I'm sorry to you feel such pain. I too, am feeling the same pain although I'm the one that chose to leave the marriage. I am around your age, and I'm sure at this time in your life you thought it would never happend to you. It stinks! Although I try to pray, and put my trust in God, it's hard...
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    Confused

    I have been separated from my husband for over 2yrs. and will soon be getting divorced. I was married for 24yrs. and from the beginning, there was no connection. He has a personality disorder and it caused our marriage to be very shallow. In other words, he never allowed me to get to know him...
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    help!

    The first year of marriage is usually the hardest because of the period of adjustment. It is good that you are seeing a therapist to help you work thru your difficulties. Just trust in the Lord and he will be there for you.