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Recent content by Mercytalking

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    Should I care what others think?

    I completely hear where you're coming from. I'm a coupla months from twenty, and my boyfriend and I are just ready to get married already, or at least engaged. But are we really? He says he'd propose this summer if I'd let him, but I think he knows that at our age perhaps its better just to...
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    Complications

    Thank you guys for all the advice. I DO think we should wait, and he understands that, though he says he'd propose this summer if I gave him the go ahead. I was trying to find a way to explain myself to him I guess, because that is not something that I am particularly good at. I want him to be...
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    Complications

    I know exactly what you mean. We don't want to get married just to have sex. We just don't want to have to wait so long - it is a factor. And the financial part is something I have definitely mentioned to him. He'll be a college graduate by then, but he is working on a project that will continue...
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    Complications

    So my boyfriend has presented the idea that it is possible for us to be married while I'm still in school. I've said no, I wanna wait until I'm out of college for 6 months, but that's 3 and a half years away and we have serious sexual urges that we are trying very hard to fight. That's a long...
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    Sleeping together, quite literally

    Its not on a regular basis at all actually, and no oppurtunity for it to be, cuz I live with my parents, who never leave town. And to be completely honest there's really no temptation involved at all, just, uh, cuddliness (I know, I don't get it either!). Unless, of course, he's just not sayin...
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    Sleeping together, quite literally

    Is it wrong to have a sleepover with your boyfriend, if the two of you fall asleep to a movie while sharing a blanket on the couch instead of a bed and the only pajamas involved are t-shirts and windpants? There's nothing sexual at all, its just that we don't get to see each other every day and...