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Recent content by mercy121

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    Help with difficult family member

    Thank you for your response. I am beyond bored! I have lost lots of weight from not eating but I do no expertise and barely go out. Exercise indoors seems easy but it's the motivation that I lack. I pray for him daily to calm down and find true happiness and love in the world.
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    Help with difficult family member

    when I read this I felt sad yet at peace. second sentence got me when you said he doesn't have any particular ill will but may be resentful of staying with him. I think you hit the hammer on the nail with that one it makes sense. waiting out the year does make sense if I think of my mum and...
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    Help with difficult family member

    thank you for getting back to me, I am not in Europe and the laws are not supportive where I am and I don't find this a problem as I see the people living here as genuinely happy, I just see my uncle as the problem..
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    Help with difficult family member

    I am currently living with my uncle until my mum finishes her divorce and comes. He is very financial stable and lives a luxurious life. However he does not give me money, let me go out, let me go out with family friends, comments about anything I do whether its art or working, questions every...
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    Help with dealing with evil person who hurt my nan.

    Good way to look at it. I am finding it really hard to forgive.. How did you forgive?
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    Help with dealing with evil person who hurt my nan.

    Wow. Never heard that before that forgiveness is not a feeling. That hit home for me and makes sense which I could not see before.. It is not a feeling. The feeling will come after forgiveness has been given. That is the challenging. Than you for your input!
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    Help with dealing with evil person who hurt my nan.

    I have another concern relating to this topic.. My uncle. We all pray for him so that God may open his eyes and he may chose to leave this lady but yet we only see the bond getting closer even though they are in different countries. Are we doing something wrong? Are we praying wrong? Directly...
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    Help with dealing with evil person who hurt my nan.

    Thank you so much.. That was beautiful. I will include her in my forgiveness prayers that she may leave her wicked path and try really hard to do it with a loving heart. This is an extremely hard test that I will try my best at. Thank you for your input, means a lot that someone had listened.
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    Help with dealing with evil person who hurt my nan.

    Hi all, I will try to keep this simple and clear.. it's hard to write this.. feels like a horror story. My nan had always lived with my uncle (her youngest son) abroad and he never got married and looked after her whilst her other children (2 boys and one girl being my mum) got married and...