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Recent content by MatthewBartholomew

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    Shallow

    Correct most people do not feel that obesity is an attractive trait in a mate. Why shouldn't you date someone you are attracted to? If your not sexually attracted to the person, why would you date them? Wanting to be with someone you are attracted to is NOT shallow. It's how we are wired. I...
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    Past and the Present

    Brother I am sorry you took offense to the tone of my post. I really didn't mean for it to come across as rude. Forgive me? I just wanted to make a post that was blunt and clear.
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    Will your love for one another gradually fades?

    Think about it in this manner: Why do Christians who are sooo on fire for God, eventually fade away. The answer is: They don't put the relationship first in their life and they take it for granted! We can keep that "in love" feeling forever if we want to. We just have to really want it...
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    Past and the Present

    I want you to know now that what I am about to say is not personal or an attack on you, ok? Let me get this straight...You've had sex before....She's had sex before. And the problem is what? I advise you don't discuss numbers. How is that constructive? How does that edify the two of you? It is...
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    Reliable dating sites..

    First off, I want to commend you for waiting to start a romantic relationship. I personally know some women who at this point in time are better off single rather than seeking their self worth in a man!! So Two thumps up for you!!!:thumbsup::thumbsup: I would recommend Relationships.com This...