Recent content by makeitwork

break it down...if you have two cars do you really need to have 2? that means 2 car insurances, gas, parking... he needs to work it doesn't matter if its mcdonalds...do you eat out? start cooking and bringing food from home to work...do you go to starbuck? stop and make your own coffee from...

thank GOD you left him...contact a church and tell them your situation and they will help you out. man i am soooo proud of you (((hugs)))

this will be weird so here it goes...in '04 i gave my life to CHRIST...had a dream that my youngest cousin who was 9 or 10 years old in my dream was being molested by the same cousin that molested me...and then they both had red dots all over them. this felt so real that i went to my cousin...

yes i am protecting myself...but why does it hurt so much? maybe because the truth hurts. my husband took our kids out for breakfast and shopping...i need to be alone...he sees how much this is hurting me and he keeps telling me i am doing the right thing...shame on them...not me. my house...

so sorry for your loss rowantree (((hugs))) you were their for your father at the right time...you were a good daughter to your father...shame on your mother...your mother is jealous of you...it's true what they say the true colors come out of people either at funerals or weddings. the day...

well my mother left a sobbing vm on my cell...makeitwork please come over your nieces and nephews are asking for you...i love you makeitwork. i gotta be honest the old me would have been there in a heart beat...but i don't have the desire to go there. my ma is controlling, manipulative, and...

i can hardly breathe...even if my mother says she's sorry and admits to the beatings my brothers gave me, and my oldest cousin molesting me it's too late. i feel like i shouldn't have to tell her how she should react...when she witness the first time my brothers beating me she should have...

yes i am still waiting..i grew up catholic but 8 years ago i gave my life to CHRIST. my husband is still catholic and we still go to the catholic church he wants to go. this church is spiritually dead. he refuses to seek another church, he no longer reads his bible, he stop saying his...

so sorry to hear about your father..being a husband, father, and caretaker for your father i say your plate is FULL...if this was a real friend he should have said "if you need anything let me know."

i feel..hurt, betrayed, rejected, alone, angry, mentally and emotional exhausted all this by my mother.

(((hugs))) i am not a doctor but with your mother moodswings she needs to seek a doctor. and what about you? when was the last time you spoiled yourself?

music i listen to chrisitan radio station k love, journaling, i read my bible, clean my house, or workout. i no longer have flashbacks, triggers, or nightmares, soon this will happen to you. hope this helps

your not leting anyone down...its scary and painful to repeat all of the abuse you've gone thru...i totally understand. (((hugs))) do you like to write? maybe if you keep a journal and write down your emotions that might help you. don't ever feel that we will judge you or criticize you...you...

thank you rowantree (((hugs)))

yes thanks for your comments. this hit home for me because i don't get the support i so desperately want from my mother and siblings. when i was molested my mother never told my father or confronted her sister son...literally it was swept under the rug. but as an adult i am finally...