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Recent content by Luvworkinprogress

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    It's lonely being married to a man with Aspergers Syndrome

    Wow, I really do not know what to say besides, God hears your cries. Your struggle, your pain, your trial will bring forth an awesome testimony. I am sorry you are hurting but I am thankful that you take your vows seriously. Many times in marriage it is not what we think it will be, the people...
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    Not married yet, just seeking advice on dating a Pastor

    I wanted to give everyone an update but duty calls. I wll update before the end of the day. Thanks for the prayers, things are going well and I am very excited and encouraged. GOD IS GOOD!!!
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    Not married yet, just seeking advice on dating a Pastor

    Sorry for the long delay. Thank for your the birthday greeting. Ok, let's see, I have been saved since I was 10. I really started living for Christ at a young age. I met my ex-h at college, and fell for him pretty hard. He was the grandson of a Pastor so I thought we would be fine. He was...
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    Is anyone dating a minister or pastor?

    :kiss: I am so excited. My s/o and I are doing so well. God has really blessed this relationship. He met my parents the other day and he is ready to introduce me to his family as well. My pastor and his wife are really encouraging me. I had a long talk with her last week and she really poured...
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    How long....Firsts

    We have already talked about marriage (from day one) because that is where we want to go if God leads us. We have only hugged and kissed on the cheek after 2 months because we don't want to stir that pot. :tutu: So for now we are waiting on some things but eagerly pursuing others:D . I really...
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    Dating question

    I can appreciate the concept of wanting companionship. That takes away the romance factor that dating adds. When I use the phrase "dating for marriage" it is to actually distinguish between the two types of relationships. Meaning,a person can seeka if I want a friend/companion to interact...
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    Dating question

    I think now we are at an age where we date for a purpose. I posted on another thread the question is anyone dating a pastor or minister. As is my situation. One thing this relationship taught me is that now I date for marriage. Everything we do is with purpose and under God's direction. It...
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    Not married yet, just seeking advice on dating a Pastor

    I guess my question was little vague. I am not sure how to re-phrase the question. Let me just give a little more background. I have been married and now and the proud mother of a beautiful little girl. After my divorce God revealed to me that I needed to wait and be still in my new-found...
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    Is anyone dating a minister or pastor?

    I guess my question was little vague. I am not sure how to re-phrase the question. Let me just give a little more background. I have been married and now and the proud mother of a beautiful little girl. After my divorce God revealed to me that I needed to wait and be still in my new-found...
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    Is anyone dating a minister or pastor?

    Thank you all. I think I was just curious to hear about other people's experiences. I am very much myself and he encourages that. I am blessed that we both want God to lead us. I must admit that it is different from any other relationship I have ever had. We are taking our time getting to know...
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    Not married yet, just seeking advice on dating a Pastor

    Hello Everyone. I posted this message on other forums and was directed here. Recently, I met a very kind man who just so happened to be a pastor. :preach: I have never been involved with a saved man so this has been an amazing blessing. I have learned so much about myself in just this...
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    Advice to stop having sex?

    I will pray for you because I know it is a hard journey. One key thing is to limit your alone time. I know that may sound very juvenile but it helps. I am dating a wonderful man and the time we spend together is very productive to the development of our relationship. We do things in public...
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    Is anyone dating a minister or pastor?

    Ok I have posted this message in 2 other forums... Please give me some feedback. :groupray: Thanks!!!!
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    Is anyone dating a minister or pastor?

    Hello Everyone. I am new to this forum and thought it might be helpful for me to get some insight on this specific type of relationship. Recently, I met a very kind man who just so happened to be a pastor. :preach: I have never been involved with a saved man so this has been an amazing...