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Recent content by lovingboy

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    ok, for the 40th time, this post is not in any way intended to help me solve any problem. My actual views are established as that such actions should not be commited, I am just curious as far as Christianity goes what we belive, and even further than that, what do we base our beliefs on. I...
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    The adopted girl who became a harlot (16:1-63). a. God's concern for Israel: God had found in a field an abandoned, despised, and dying baby girl. Her name was Israel (16:1-5). This is a reference to Israel's bondage to the Egyptians in the first few chapters of Exodus (see especially Exod...
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    Actually, this interpretation is one of the most well accredited interpretations of this poem. The notes that I put out were snippets taken out from the notes distributed by Dr. Thomas L. Constable, Th.D., the Department Chairman and Senior Professor of Bible Exposition at Dallas Theological...
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    In response to bella_song, the song of salomon (song of songs) is the story of how a love turns into a marriage, so it is vital to just not pull phrases and anyalize them out of context, as thye all relate to the story. The following is an interpretation done by Bible study group: As the book...
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    Havce you ever taken a philosophy class and know how this kind of argumentation works? Or even debate? It is about looking at on emoral act as compared to a similar one and seeing the moralities of it.
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    Because I am not expecting anything except for her to be happy, and the thought of sex does not cross my mind. Even if you will most likeley debate that it (could) lead to sex. To put it in a different perspective, if a woman could get an [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] from her bf kissing her (which i know of some...
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    Can we please stop bashing? How many times must I make it clear that i do not want a bash fest where you are getting to the point of insulting others. I did not specify that I saw it as something not sexual, I actualy do see it as something sexual, as I do kissing and sex among others. But...
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    That would be one of the things which I do not understand, as I have been in a couple of relationships, and yes, I admit that i have lusted over them, but when i look at my current girlfriend I get a completely different feeling, I just want her to be happy, because just seeing her smile lights...
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    Thank you for actually listening and being objective, while providing useful insights. This is exactly what I would like this discussion to be like, instead of a free for all bash.
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    Do you consider self masturbation sex?
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    Once again, I am not looking for anyone to solve any of my problems, but only to have a better understanding of Christianity. I once again will say that I do not believe in premaritasl sex and have decided to not have these kinds of behaviors, but I would still like to know just for the sake of...
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    I am only trying to see the reason and understaning behind such actions, I really do not know how many times I have to explain that my decision has nothing to do with the information obtained from this discussion. I have tried looking at the Bible (had you read the posts more carefully you would...
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    What I meant to say is that Go dallows anythign which he has not forbidden, and that we as human beings are allowed to make our own choices and decisions based on our own personal morals and values. Which would further clarify the use of the 10 commandmends as things that God forbids.
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    From my view I am not going to do it. I actually do believe in purity and do not condonce premarital sex. Now on the other hand, you mentioned how oral sex has the word sex in it, and I do agree, but where in the word "masturbation" is sex involved? that's exactly where my argument lies, is...
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    An excellent wife

    One word: Beautiful.