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Recent content by Leta

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    I wonder...

    Monica, You know if you are strong enough to deal without help. I think you are doing very well, just know that if you do need the help that it is available. Congrtulations on your engagement! I understand you not wanting to go into your marrige with an ed. I too am getting married soon and...
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    bigger..

    I am the same way hunny. I feel that I look twice as big as I did before the binge! That's our distorted body image working overtime! Saleta
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    Well, I'm at it agian!

    I was doing so well! I'm back at it agian and it frustrates me that I can't give bulimia up for good! I was in this forum before and it really helped me. I was in a deep depression and b/p ing and cutting and starving myself but God brought me out of it. I'm engaged to a wonderful christian man...
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    Would you be interviewed about your disorder?

    I'll answer some questions too hun. Just pm me or directly email me. Saleta
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    I am sooo confused...

    Jen hunny, You know I feel the same way. I talk to you all the time and say that you should stop and that what you are doing is so harmful, yet I am doing the same thing. I say that I am not harming myself and that I am just trying to lose weight but we both know that what we are doing is...
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    One week!

    Yes! I've made it a week! :clap: :clap: :clap: Thank you all for all of your encouragment and prayers, I couldn't do it without you! Love, Saleta
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    I am made it 3 days!

    I made it 3 days!!!! Woooohooo!:clap: :amen: I can't believe it but I have resisted the urge for three whole days! :thumbsup: It is quite liberating for sure! I pray I can go another three days. My bulimia is another story but one thing at a time right? God BLess, Saleta
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    stupid question >_<

    Loopi, Well hun, cutting is an adddiction depression is an emotion. I can be having a perfectly fine day and at the end of the day cut anyway. It sounds to me you are having a really rough time and cutting is your way of dealing with it. I'm glad you haven't cut in 8 days hun :clap: that's...
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    Scared

    I am so scared, I have b/p and si and I cut really deep. My head is spinning and I am so weak. I feel hopeless, useless, alone. I know I need help but I am afraid. Noone knows what I am doing and the real me that noone sees is a frightened, damaged, and very depressed . I'm hiding it all and if...
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    It's not something......

    Diva, OH YEAH! I can completely relate! I have let bulimia define me for sure. It's not a behavior it's me. rrrrrr:mad: Very frustrating because looking at it that way seems like I will never get better! Saleta
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    20 days

    Misty, YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!! Visualize that sit down with your therapist and think how good you'll feel!!!!! GO girl! God Bless, Saleta
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    struggling...agian

    Thank you Bev :hug: ! I am going through a very hard time right now with the divorce. I am grieving, I fear too much. My soon to be ex husband comes over to see the children but he goes through my fridge sits on the couch, and falls asleep all while the kids are trying to get his attention! He...
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    Terry Schiavo's eating disorder

    I know what you're saying! I feel sometimes that what I am doing is not really going to "hurt" me really and i'll be just fine no matter what my body may be telling me otherwise.
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    struggling...agian

    I'm so frustrated! I didn't cut yesturday...yea me.... but today I took my kids to the movies and I had a thing of popcorn. Being bulimic as well it was difficult for me but I didn't purge. I felt like junk the rest of the day. This popcorn was the only thing in days I have digested. I put the...
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    Ahhhhh help!

    You are all awesome! RDEE :kiss: you rock as always! Jen :kiss: you're a kindred spirit for sure! Mr. Cheese :kiss: you're my brother and I love you too! Bev :kiss: you're always so encouraging to me! Sparrow :kiss: you give such hope! Love you all! Saleta