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Recent content by lendedhand

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    If I only had some friends . . . .

    I apologise if this is posted in the wrong area. I really need some advice and seeing this is a friendship area maybe some friendly sorts might be up to the challenge. I am a 21-year-old female, in a lot of ways got a productive life, work full time in a nursing home and go to school to be...
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    need lots of help and advice

    Honey, listen to me. OCD (which I have, BTW) makes you think some crazy things. If you truly didn't believe in Jesus, you wouldn't be here saying you love Him and desperately seeking help. I recommend talking to someone about this, maybe your pastor or a trusted friend or someone...
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    Religious OCD

    My obsessions? Vows. I'm terrified of "accidentally" making a vow, yet crazy promises (most of which make no sense) constantly pop into my head. I've fought it hard and had counseling, etc. If you want to talk more, feel free to PM. Hope you're getting better! Hold fast to the Word.
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    Scrupulosity

    I have it pretty bad. :cry: Those of you having panic attacks and feeling like Scripture is prophesying specifically against you, I know how you feel. It's been horrible, but I'm hoping in the end it will bring me closer to the Lord. Be strong, all, and feel free to PM me if you want to talk...