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Recent content by Ladywind7

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    Im having trouble not being bitter

    FishyJoe. The Op said he is unable to talk about it yet. So a Doctor or Councilor could help. But when he is ready to go. Right now he is asking for prayers for his family. That is sufficient for now :) I hope things are easing for you Nicholas55. I messaged my husband and asked him if he would...
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    Im having trouble not being bitter

    So am I. Everything plays over in my head like a recording. What I am doing is praying each time I feel negative emotions toward my separated husband. I am hoping time will align my emotions to God's. You are human and have to work through the process.
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    Newly Married/Disappointing Sex Life

    It sounds like sexual incompatibility to me. My husband and I had the same issue. I wanted foreplay and more lovemaking. Different libidos is a hard one. I just accepted it and tried not to think about it. Loving him was my first priority. And sacrifice became a daily thing
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    What is cheating?

    I believe so. I never would have crossed that line. It was supposed to be sacred. Thank you for your response.
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    What is cheating?

    I agree. Thank you
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    What is cheating?

    Thank you.
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    What is cheating?

    My husband sent romantic, mild erotic poetry to a married co worker. Is this a form of cheating? Both of us are poets and I thought that that sharing of our poetry was for us only. I feel betrayed.
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    Please Pray for Me - Crisis

    It seems there is no let up for you. No quiet sanctuary for you to heal from past trauma. You really need to heal and become stronger in Jesus, so you can face all life brings your way. I am praying that your roomate will either improve or be removed. Until this happens I suggest meditating on 1...
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    Friend has VERY bad depression

    Praying for your friend.
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    I hate my life, this is a cry for help

    You spell and write perfectly normal, so you are not stupid at all. Friends are not all that... Be particular who you have and call friend. God gave you your boyfriend, he can give you a friend too. But BE PATIENT. Most things take time and effort.Are you in a church to learn and grow? Bad...
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    Being worried, is it a faith problem?

    I have teenagers and they both worry a lot. The pressure of school, the social anxiety and general 'what will I do with my life' stuff.It is normal. When it disrupts your sleep, you should be asking for help. Can you discuss these issues with parents or a doctor?
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    Well look where the wind has blown me :)

    Why thank you for your bright welcome.
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    Well look where the wind has blown me :)

    New Zealander here, hoping for fellowship and stimulating forum activity....My wings are a tad ruffled and in need of repair as I, like most, have flown through a few storms to get here. So I will get busy healing and oiling my feathers and watch you all till I am ready to participate.