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Recent content by Kyle King

  1. K

    In need of advice....

    Yes, you are correct. The bible does give you the answers to all questions and God will show you the way. I really need to pray for discernment and what these signs are telling me; Is it my heart or is it God.
  2. K

    In need of advice....

    I considered myself more to blame at time because at the beginning of our marriage she gave me everything and I was emotionally closed off. I've never hit her or anything and I never would. I have been selfish with my time and sometimes with finances because I thought I made the money. I was...
  3. K

    In need of advice....

    I agree with you that I am not ready and that I need to focus on my marriage. Even though she seems like she is not interested at all in recovering the marriage and has even said so, some of her actions speaks differently. Casual conversation via text, calling to ask for advice, etc. I may be...
  4. K

    In need of advice....

    Your knowledge of the bible is greater than mine, hence why I am here. Some say fight some say leave because of adultery. I accepted my first wife back after 3 physical adulterous affairs and the fourth one I finally gave up. That is the reason for my initial hesitation for trying to pursue...
  5. K

    In need of advice....

    I agree with you. It might be same as I have done myself, someone to talk to because she was lonely. I am not innocent by any stretch of the imagination. I have been researching biblical ways to fix our marriage and is why I am here. If you want to private message me or put it on here is fine. I...
  6. K

    In need of advice....

    I agree with you 100% and I am sorry for branding my self the innocent one. I have done wrong and though I don't condone her actions I can't say that I don't understand them. I am just as guilty in the falling apart of our marriage as she, if not more so. I take full responsibility for my...
  7. K

    In need of advice....

    I agree with what your saying. However, I could also quote Hosea and his relationship with Gomer. That is why I am confused as to if I should fight or give up.
  8. K

    In need of advice....

    I have talked to the mans ex wife regarding him and she says he is dating her. I know she has been seen with him on a numerous occasion in a group setting and his truck is always at the restaurant she works at and I have seen them outside smoking together (the smoking is another issue). So have...
  9. K

    In need of advice....

    I agree. My children are the most important thing in this whole situation and I need to be an example for them, regardless of what their mother does. The "plan" of which you speak is another topic I need help on. If anyone has been there, what could I do to help sway her heart back to Jesus or...
  10. K

    In need of advice....

    It seems that is the case also. Her mother and father would always move from one to the next. She always stated that she never wanted to be like them but now she is heading down a path that is exactly like them.
  11. K

    In need of advice....

    I will also add that her family wants me to keep fighting and to "give her time to figure herself out." Shes never had a home life growing up and doesn't really know what traditional family is supposed to be like.
  12. K

    In need of advice....

    I moved out approximately 4 weeks ago and right now moving back in is not an option. She is dead set on getting a divorce as of right now. That particular affair ended I do know; however, rumor is she is dating another person who is just separated from his wife as well. Now I personally do not...
  13. K

    In need of advice....

    I would like to start out in saying how great it is to find a community like this that is willing to help people in their search for answers in the word of God. This current issue that I am needing advice on is the current state of my marriage. I was saved in 2008 and was led to Christ by my...