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Recent content by kw1276

  1. K

    is my pastor wrong?

    Well honestly there is no question about wether the deacon is sleeping with the woman because they have 3 kids together
  2. K

    Unfriendly church or just me?

    You don't go to church to make friends but fellowship is very important. I agree that hopefully getting involved in the church and bible studies will help. Grace&peace
  3. K

    is my pastor wrong?

    Your right, that was not the way I should have put it, and they did pass it on to me. I drank everyday till I came to christ and then struggled with for awhile afterwards. I guess what I meant was not that .... well there addicted to alcohol so they must not be saved... I just meant that the...
  4. K

    is my pastor wrong?

    I agree that living together is the least of there problems, but so is alcohol. Those things are just symptoms of the true problem, and that I fear is a lack of true salvation. I doubt that showing a few verses about drunkenness would cause them to quit drinking, but like I said , that would be...
  5. K

    is my pastor wrong?

    Well my parents don't consider themselves atheists, they consider themselves christians but they are both alcoholics, they live together but are not married, my mother is actually still married to my stepdad, and they dont go to church. I am aware that these things don't make someone saved or...
  6. K

    is my pastor wrong?

    Yeah, I agree its a little difficult to read sorry.lol but I disagree about the marriage issue, when Mary became pregnant Joesph was going to divorce her and they where only engaged. So I would say they took it alot more serious than we do today
  7. K

    is my pastor wrong?

    I appreciate the responses to the issue of the deacon and the woman it has been very encouraging , thank you. I would also like to hear your thoughts about going to your loved ones who seem to show no evidence of true salvation with scripture and showing them in love why your concerned about...
  8. K

    is my pastor wrong?

    There is no common law marriage in the state I live in and even if you could make that argument where do we draw the line about shacking up... its the principal... if we turn our heads about this what's next?... its a slippery slope
  9. K

    is my pastor wrong?

    No most of the members are not concerned about the deacon living with the women maybe it is because him and her have been together for about 20yrs or maybe because he is related to about 90%a of the church but either way the church and the pastor seem more concerned about doing work im the...
  10. K

    is my pastor wrong?

    Ok... so I live in a small town and about a year ago we got a new pastor and I was thrilled, we had been without a pastor for a year and he seemed like he was gonna be great he had a doctorate, he had previous pastoral experience and he is even a teacher at a bible college. But the first thing I...
  11. K

    ocd or me?

    I've never been diagnosed with ocd but I think I have some symptoms like when I set the alarm clock, sometimes it seems like it just wont register in my mind that its set, so ill turn it off and on over and over saying to myself "ok.. its 10pm and the alarm is set for 6am" and ill do that...