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Recent content by kton16

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    I think I found my wife...

    Thanks all once again :)! And the tips for basic training!
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    Girlfriend of 18 Months is Being Confusing

    I too have been in a similar predicument. I feel the SAME way you do, cause Im going through it now. I will tell you that you must be patient, if not your going to read into things and gain speculations. I know it hurts, but draw nigh unto God and let him do everything! Give it some time...
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    I think I found my wife...

    Hahahahah! No way, I'm not going fast at basic training! Im 170 pounds now, I was 200 LOL! I was a big guy, all I did was lift weights. Hopefully I can bulk up some more while in BCT! Thanks for your info! And Thanks again everyone!! I'm still waiting in my heart, and I know God has...
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    I think I found my wife...

    Thanks guys for your inputs! Very understanding and helpful, and Im excited to serve my country!!! The thing is, I have been preparing myself for marriage at a young age (everyone can laugh LOL). Thats why I'm still a virgin, I only kissed one girl but 3 times (when I was backsliding...
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    I think I found my wife...

    Thanks everyone! I wont' jump to conclusions and wait for God to clear the path to open marriage up as taking even more time to know her. I mean, she says she wants to and feel like God brought us together for a reason, ha! But ok, I will take it one step....Thanks ya'll!! Godbless :pray:
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    I think I found my wife...

    Thank you a lot :)! Yes, I know waiting is something I have to do ^_^. I prayed, and I know "not fully" im not ready for marriage yet. But something is still pulling me to her for some reason...I normally don't feel like this but nothing left to do but pray and wait and concentrate with...
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    I think I found my wife...

    Thank you all! Im 22 and shes 19, we both are very mature (i think lol or hope) im still a virgin and she slipped up in the past once. But we both think sex till marriage is the best and ONLY option. Oh no! Not tryna control her at all, im letting God have his way. Ive been in similar cases...
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    I think I found my wife...

    Thanks everyone for your inputs!!! Yes I have dated her and we both talked about marrying when the time is right. (Some time after training, training is 6 months =\) She did tell me to pace myself, so we are working on ourselves till then, letting God work on us seprately. Yes, I understand...
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    I think I found my wife...

    Ok, im not just saying this just to say it or because I like her its what is inside her that I prayed about before to God and she's everything that I prayed for. I just need feedback :)! Thanks I have received confirmations through certain things, like we talked for like 2-3 months then lost...
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    Is It a Sin to Have a Fetish? What Does the Bible Say?

    Theres nothing wrong with what you like, as long as in marriage with your wife and ONLY your wife. The best thing to do is fast from temptation and for God to show you how to abstain from it till marriage. I have a foot fetish for females, im not perfect but when I feel the "want" to rise up...
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    Odd features you find attractive in the opposite sex

    I like feet too lol! I get made fun of but i find a female christian that takes care of her feet is attractive :)!
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    My outlook on romance went south.

    Ive been there, im 22 but ive been in your shoes. I never allowed my pasts to affect my future though. But ive been mistreated, i was raised in church and the world of "dating" is so different! Be wise who you allow in your life, pray BEFORE you let that person in your life. Be open and...
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    Confused if its God's will?

    Ya'll are right! Totally right, couldn't agree more. Thanks DreyDay! She's a great female though, she did say that she don't want a good guy get away "me" and stuff yesterday. But i know its not the right time for that, imma sit back and be friends and watch God move upon her life.
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    Confused if its God's will?

    Thank you guys! Godbless you all, I will continue to seek God daily and use wisdom.
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    Confused if its God's will?

    I agree! Very much so, but she used the scriptures about casting lots for answers or different things like that. Also the story about abraham and him finding a wife for him and God gave him a clear answer so she said "Why not I need direction so lets see"