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Recent content by kj1

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    Don't know what to do.

    Dear Trish, Thank you so much for your reply. It means so much to me. My wife agreed to talk to our pastor today with me about our situation. I know we cant get through this on our own, but I have explained to my wife that through Christ all things are possible. I have a really hard time when...
  2. K

    Don't know what to do.

    Hello, I have been married to my wife for 14 years now. She suffers from BPD. (although she won't say that she does) Here is my situation. The first affair that she had (at least, the first one that I found out about) she transformed into a person that was nothing like the person I had...