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Recent content by KittyVel

  1. KittyVel

    How long have you been with your SO?

    My answer has changed since the last time I was here...I was with my ex for 3 1/2 years. I've been with my current boyfriend for 4 days. He's wonderful, though. I look forward to seeing where our relationship goes. :3
  2. KittyVel

    Are bipolars EVER happy? I don't know how much more of this I can take.

    I have Manic Depressive Bipolar Disorder. There are times where I'm severely depressed, and I feel like I just want to curl up in a dark corner and die. Then there are other times where I'm extremely hyperactive, talking a hundred miles a minute, and happy as a clam. So yes, people with...
  3. KittyVel

    has abuse affected your mental health?

    I have severe social and general anxiety, particularly around men...And I have also developed Manic Depressive Bipolar Disorder. My ex tried to rape me on several occasions (I consider myself incredibly lucky to have gotten away), and was extremely abusive verbally and psychologically. I...
  4. KittyVel

    An abuser-to-English dictionary

    All of these are so true...I have another one. "I love you, and I want us to be able to share ourselves with each other." Translation: "I want your body and I'm gonna have it whether you like it or not." Oh, and another one just came to mind. "Baby, my dad just died. I can't lose you, too...
  5. KittyVel

    How long have you been with your SO?

    3 years and 4 months. <3
  6. KittyVel

    North Carolina

    Hiya! North Carolina native, right here! Born in Jacksonville, NC, and raised in Greensboro! :3 Not the safest city (unfortunately, shootings, stabbings, kidnappings, and animal cruelty cases are no strangers here), but I love it here. <3 Anyone else in the Greensboro/High...
  7. KittyVel

    I hate to ask for help again...

    ...but this time, it's not for me, but for two friends of mine. Their names are Kirby and Donavin. I found out today that Kirby has brain lesions and Donavin has been diagnosed with Paranoid Schizophrenia. They were both previously addicted to a research chemical drug. (And unfortunately, I...
  8. KittyVel

    Hello from a Non-Christian. :3

    If you have something to say, just say it. Thanks for the welcome! :3
  9. KittyVel

    Whitney Houston has died

    I completely agree! She was a wonderful performer, such a great talent lost.
  10. KittyVel

    Binge Eating Disorder

    Thank you so much for your support and advice. *hugs* It means a lot. :)
  11. KittyVel

    Hello from a Non-Christian. :3

    No, I do not. I follow Ancient Egyptian deities independently. I create my own rituals and prayers and things like that. I'm good friends with several people who consider themselves Kemetic Reconstructionist and Kemetic Orthodox.
  12. KittyVel

    Hi I'm new! :)

    Hiya, welcome to the forums! I hope you enjoy your stay!
  13. KittyVel

    An intro for you

    Hiya! Welcome to the forums! :3
  14. KittyVel

    Gay Relationship

    Those other things hurt other people, though. A man loving another man harms no one. Why should love be condemned? Being homosexual is not a choice. Sexuality is determined by genetics and prenatal conditions. Since this is the case, wouldn't God have created homosexuals that way? If so...
  15. KittyVel

    Gay Relationship

    But why is it that so many other sins are forgiven, sins that are easily avoided, yet homosexuality, which is by no means a choice, isn't? People can stop themselves from stealing, lying, killing, and raping, but they can't stop being homosexual. Why condemn to hell the people who are...