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Recent content by Kitty1809

  1. K

    hate my life

    My marriage is going through a rough atch. My husand doesn't trust me, I don't know whether I love him. It all came to a head yesterday, we had a flaming row, a lot of hurt things were said. In the end I ended up swallowing some pills, my husband came in obviously very angry. Today it feels...
  2. K

    Being Alone With Men

    I had a similar situation. I was repeat assaulted when I was 16. I found it really hard, and still do, to be alone with men. I can't really say there is any right way to get over this as I am still getting over it. I have found that I am slowly trusting men again. I was fortunate to find a man...
  3. K

    Fed up

    I'm so fed up of my life the way it is. I have tried to say that what I am doing is what God wants, staying in a marriage that is int rouble, moving across the country for a 'fresh start', not having any friends that my Husband does not have already. I have let everything and now I feel like...
  4. K

    Self Harming

    Thank you for the support.. I have felt so lonely since we moved. I have tried to become more involved in the church. I have found that my self spiralling more. My husband is trying to be understanding but a few nights ago he got very frustrated and very angry. He admitted that he was close to...
  5. K

    Sunday School Help

    No we don't have a curriculum, I can choose what we teach.
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    What are we supposed to do on a sabbath?

    I feel that the Sabbath is a chance to ensure that Jesus is the centre of your life. On this day I try to read a little more of the bible than I do during the week. I talk more to my husband than I do during the week.
  7. K

    Sunday School Help

    Thank you will be looking at all of these!
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    Sunday School Help

    I am becoming involved with my churches Sunday School. Many of the children who come, come from families whose parents are coming to Christ but has not given a commitment. Due to this the children have grown up with little or no knowledge of Christ till recently. I am in charge of the older...
  9. K

    Family Problems

    I'm not sure this is the right place to post but I am after advice. None of my family is Christian which I don't mind but it is leading to some conflict within me. My brother, who left the family when I was very young has tried to get back in contact. We have all talked to him seprately but I...
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    Self Harming

    We recently moved to where we live now and have joined a church, I am not sure et. I know about our pastor yet, I know I should trust him enough to tell him about my problems and ask for help but I have a lot of trust issues.
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    Self Harming

    I have been suffering from depression for a while, though my doctor believes that I should deal with it! But in the last few months I have found myself hurting myself deliberatly to ease the pain. I don't cut myself but I do find ways to hurt myself. to get my mind off my situation. The...