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Recent content by Kirbyjade

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    Should I pack up his things???

    He told me he's cant lie to me about who he is anymore. And he has been for a decade now. He does recreational drugs looks at porn and who knows what else. . I feel so stupid for never knowing these things. God has revealed to me he is trying to live in darkness so living with me is convicting...
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    Should I pack up his things???

    My husband has told me he's done. . We rarely fight. And I thOught we had a great marriage. We have a 4, 2 and 4 week old. We're 28 years old. He told me the night before we had our newborn. But since we had her he has been here all the time! Helping way more then he ever did. Being super nice...
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    Separating to resolve our issues, and more

    Oh you Poor guy. Just know God has won this battle for you. And He will make sure your more then just ok. I don't know how she can say she want to focus on God while breaking her covenant with you. . The bible clearly says divorce is murder to the soul. But that's not on you if this her choice.
  4. K

    Separating to resolve our issues, and more

    It also sounds to me. She may be crying out for some romance or to feel like you are really choosing her not just doing the right thing. When she says she wants you to discover if you really love her. In not sure if you have heard of the love dare. Or fireproof the movie. I would strongly...
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    Separating to resolve our issues, and more

    I'm not a fan of people leaving a marriage to "find themselves". We get married for a lifetime and with God we grow. We change. We live. That's life. That's the way it's supposed to be. We live in such a "feel good" society. When things don't feel good anymore we move on to fInd the next thing...
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    Is he going or not??

    My husband and I have been married 6 years together for 10. We now have 3 children. The night before my newborn was born (she came early, this is why). He told me he wanted to sepperate. That he loves me more then I knOw, I deserve better then him. . Blah blah. That he's been doing recreational...