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Recent content by kaypheonix

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    Have your kids ever tried to set you up?

    friday i picked my daughter up and she said, Mommy you know what i want for my birthday? and i said no..thinking she would say a new doll or bike..but she said.."A Step Daddy that will read to me until i fall asleep" so i told her that right now God just wants it to be me Him and her and she cut...
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    I don't know why God has let my life turn out like this

    Please do not give up, right now it seem that you need to really focus on God and have a relationship with Him...a true relationship. Yes, i am a woman but i too was addicted to pornography and it was really shameful and i felt so bad about myself, but i really really enjoyed porn...then i...
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    Keeping hopes high?

    you are looking at this from the wrong perspective..and i am telling you because i know EXACTLY how you feel...but please understand that God may just want it to be you and Him right now. IF you put all your energy in to loving and knowing God i promise that the loneliness you feel right now...
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    How do you feel about being single?

    Well, i as well hated the way i became single. it wasnt until i really gave my life to Christ that i understood that God wants it to just be me and Him right now...through He and I, i have truely felt love for the first time at the age of 26. The love that i feel for God is the love i want...
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    Girls would you walk away form this?

    i definately would not walk away...but some women might think..wow..does that mean he is violent?? Remember if they walk away just because of that God probably had something (someone) better for you anyway, Love, KP
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    My desire for marriage has been switched off

    Well, the samething happened to me to some degree, my parents have been unhappily married for 30+ years and everyone around me seems to be drowning in misery...but then i realize none of these people have Christ in their lives and that most were married for all the wrong reasons...so here is my...
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    how old when you had your first child?

    I WOULD LIKE TO HEAR THAT TOO...i'll probably be 40 by the time i get married and can have another one!!!!!!!!!!!:prayer:
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    to single moms/dads:

    I always picture my husband to have children...i have a 5 year old and i really want my Godly husband to have a child too...if you have children do you want a husband/wife that has his/her own child or just likes children??
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    I am praying for a Godly Man With Children...

    Is that weird??? i have a 5 year old (soon to be 6) and i just dream of him having a son or daughter too...is that totally strange....?? when you think about your husband (single moms) do you want him to have children or just like children....or am i the only single mom on here:scratch:
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    how old when you had your first child?

    20 in my 3rd year of college
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    Male virginity <just for girls>

    for me, i think that as along as he has a strong relationship with God and is waiting until he gets married it wouldnt matter. i believe if we have both repented our past and have lived holy and worthy, God will bless us on our wedding night as if we were eachother's first experience.
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    Baptism: My ticket to heaven or not?

    well, i didnt grow up in the church so i always thought water baptism meant that the person had made a commitment to God and would go to heaven and i always wondered why people would baptize babies when they were making no choice of their own to follow Christ....so no after dedicating MY life to...
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    Anyone from Virginia?

    Charlottesville Here!!!! Uva! Uva! Uva!
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    What about interracial dating?

    i have been to all white churches and all black churches, and non denom. churches..as long as i am in a place where people love the Lord I am so happy...
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    Interracial Dating..please Hep!!

    I have not been saved that long but my relationship with God is so strong that I feel like I have known Him forever. My question is, I have always prefered white men. Is that okay to still have that preference although the next man in my life will be my husband? Is it okay to want a white...