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Recent content by KayJay2000

  1. K

    Normal?

    I am autistic, there are some things I do which I'm wondering if they are normal or just an autistic thing. For example, I have a few fluffy toys which I take to bed, I buy myself some fidget toys and similar things, I somerimes make odd noises if I'm excited or clentch my teeth together and...
  2. K

    I need some advice

    SirKenin, I never compalin about other members on forums, however, I really feel I need to. I came to a christian site as I assumed people would try to have Christ like qualities. However, I am definietly wrong. I can not believe how rude you are and you are clearly ignorant about abuse and...
  3. K

    I need some advice

    Thank you for your replies and advice. I have been feeling really depressed about the whole thing for a very long time, in fact, many years and this last couple of weeks I have been ready to end the relationship as I can't see any other way. My husband has been at uome the last couple of weeks...
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    I need some advice

    The last thing I want is to split up from my husband as I don't believe it is a Christian thing to do. However, I am now at the point where I'm not sure of any other option. I don't have anyone I can talk to and I really need some Christian advice. We have been married for 16 years and have...
  5. K

    putting up with pain

    I have a question that I feel little silly asking. I was emotionally, verbally and physically abused by my mum throughout my childhood. I was raped as a teenager and I am now in an abusive marriage. I have suffered with really bad migraines for over 20 years. The pain is unbearable and...
  6. K

    please help. I don't know what to do

    I have read all your replies with tears. I would never intentionally put my children in harm, they are the most important thing to me ever. Reading your replies has made me realise that I am and have been too scared to leave my husband. I now know that I need to. I am going to find out what I am...
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    please help. I don't know what to do

    Sorry if my last post was too much detail. I'm not trying to say that it's not my fault. I know I should have somehow told my husband sooner than I did. I know he blames everything on me because of this and I know he is partly right although his anger and alcohol problems were there there before...
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    please help. I don't know what to do

    Thank you for all your comments. I agree with all of them and have done for years. I suppose the problem is that I seem incapable of doing anything about it. A couple of weeks before we got married I noticed this behaviour, but I was young and niavie and I thought everything would be fine...
  9. K

    Depression?

    I've suffered from depression for years but never plucked up the courage to go to the doctors about it. The thing is, it seems to come and go. I can be fine for a few weeks (not manic at all, just fine), then I get a few weeks where I REALLY struggle to get through every day. This cycle seems to...
  10. K

    please help. I don't know what to do

    This could be extremely long so I will try to cut it down a lot. I am in a marriage that makes me sad and I can't give my husband the love and intimacy he wants. I know I can't end the marriage but it's not fair on either of us if things continue how they are. Basically, my husband has...
  11. K

    Think my child may be dyslexic

    He has just told me that it looks like hallos or shaddows arround the letters, but just on the smaller letters only, he could read the big letters fine. Don't know if that means anything?
  12. K

    Think my child may be dyslexic

    My son has a few symptoms of being dyslexic and now after an optician appointment yesterday I'm concerned that he maybe he would say a letter correct and then a few seconds latter say something different for that letter and the optician said that he thought it could be dyslexia. He said that...