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Recent content by KAY99

  1. K

    I love him, can I make love to him?

    Yes, but Christians do make mistakes and they are forgiven. Obviously we don't want to sin in the first place, and it looks like that is the situation the OP is in. To say 'how can you profess to be Christians if you are even thinking about this' is not at all supportive.. Please, we are created...
  2. K

    I love him, can I make love to him?

    brinny, I have to wonder whether you or SuperPhil have been in the same situation? It is perfectly wonderful to talk about how a Christian should be and how they should think, but sexual desire is a very natural thing and it is also a deep struggle. I thought the OP was very honest in her...
  3. K

    How far is too far?

    Good advice, although I would say that some actions must be considered a sin... For example, would you consider mutual masturbation a sin? It is hard to argue that it is something that God would be please with before marriage. Also, as for your shower comment, I kind of think that would be a...
  4. K

    I love him, can I make love to him?

    Keep it up, and I am sure the wait will be worth it. I am in a similar situation myself, and I have been in a 2.5 year relationship with the wonderful girl of my dreams. I am afraid to say that I have been the one bringing us down as I rationalized our behaviour, which was not sex, but it...
  5. K

    Clothing oneself?

    Hey Ottoman, I just read through your thread, and I have found your different views quite interesting and refreshing. I am a Christian and I disagree with Muslim teachings, but I do find your dedication to that which you think is right and your strength of character to be quite commendable. I...
  6. K

    What really angers me about the entire "abstinence" vs. "safe sex" education issue...

    Thanks, I was legitmately unaware of how the forum operated and I have checked things out now, so my bad with my comments.. I still mean them, but I had thought this was Christian-specific forum so I was slightly disturbed with some of the views that I thought were being represented as...
  7. K

    What really angers me about the entire "abstinence" vs. "safe sex" education issue...

    Christianity is not against sex at all.. It is in full support of the utmost enjoyment in all things sexual, as long as this is between a married couple... I am just curious, are there any Christians on this board?
  8. K

    What really angers me about the entire "abstinence" vs. "safe sex" education issue...

    I really don't understand what is going on here. Is this not a Christian forum? What is all this talk of 'Let people follow what is best for them' and 'Give kids the tools and let them decide what is right and wrong'. God decides what is right and wrong, and he has already made it clear. Sex...
  9. K

    Women march topless in Portland Maine

    Wow. I have read 3 threads on this forum and I am so surprised by what I am reading I decided to create an account to comment. Everything I have read so far has been distinctly against what the Bible teaches and I am quite disappointed that this is what a 'Christian' forum is producing. I could...