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Recent content by kat123

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    recycled virginity

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    He Proposed!

    Hi Everyone, My boyfriend and I are getting married!! We were in Chicago for the weekend and he total surprised me. We were waiting to kiss until we got engaged and the kiss was great, definitely worth waiting for. Both our families are very happy, my mom and I have already gone to look...
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    waiting to kiss

    Thanks for all the support....My SO and I have talked a lot about the boundaries and we have set some. For those that think that we don't have chemistry or aren't affectionate to each other, it couldn't be farther from the truth. It's hard to not kiss him and that is how I know that I am...
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    waiting to kiss

    Did anyone wait until they were engaged or married to kiss? My boyfriend and I will be getting engaged soon and I'm becoming discouraged because we don't have a lot of back up from friends and family on the waiting to kiss... We are waiting until we are engaged because we wanted to get to know...
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    Avoiding sex before marriage--keeping the natural desires under control

    Hi all, In regards to the modesty issue, I have an ironic story. I read 'I kissed dating goodbye' a couple years ago. (when I was just coming back to the church) and there the author makes a comment in there to women about the need to dress 'appropriately' to help men not be tempted. I read...
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    recycled virginity

    Hi All, I wanted to get some feedback from people about recycled virginity and all that goes along with that. (i.e. living a chaste life). Unfortunately, I have not always been so strong in my decision to live, as God wants me to and became involved in a negative scene in high school. My...