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Recent content by jwebhead

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    Husband seems to have closed me out

    Yes there is supposedly a strong Christian foundation but as time goes on I see that my present husband has twisted the bible to fit his desire so often that I cannot understand his interpretation on God. He had so many justifications for his divorce as well as mine, yet they all stand true now...
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    Husband seems to have closed me out

    I have my parents and his is there too. (Not that I will have alot to do with them in the beginning, but the boys will have their extended family)
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    Husband seems to have closed me out

    So I guess I have come to my decision. I am going to go back 'home' (I moved 2500 miles away) and make things work with my ex husband and make my family whole again. Give the boys their Dad back. My present-husband tells me that I have figuratively kicked, slapped and pushed him away from me and...
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    Are you an Adult Child of Divorced Parents?

    I'm sorry that you are dealing with this. My husband's parents have been going through a similar situation for the past year. They claim they were not trying to put my husband in the middle but in fact they were. Finally he did say something to both his parents. They were acting as they were in...
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    confused and scared

    My 2 cents...I agree with BKG...speaking as a divorced person, it is NOT the answer. Perhaps this separation for a short time will be helpful, (I think if my ex and I had an opportunity to separate for a while we would be together today. Just because time and space gives you a different...
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    Remarried but want to 'go back' and make my family whole

    He does want me back. It is not a matter that 'he HAS to take me back', He wants to. The reason why they do not live with him is that he does not have any family support and he and I both agree that putting the boys in daycare while he is at work would make things even worse. The day may come...
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    Remarried but want to 'go back' and make my family whole

    My ex and I have a good relationship and he also has one with the boys. He calls everyday. He sees them about every 2 to 3 months, (airfares, hotel, car rentals, etc. keep him away which we share in the expenses as well as us going to see him and him coming here) it just kills me to see the boys...
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    Remarried but want to 'go back' and make my family whole

    WP: Thanks for the advice. I see what you are saying and honestly a relief came when I read it. BKG I had hoped for some more insight from you. ;) If your ex-wife was saved but remarried and was in this what would you do? (Not being hurtful, seriously you have illuded before about your...
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    Remarried but want to 'go back' and make my family whole

    About 18 months ago I began an affair with a man I had been friends with for 8 years. 16 months ago I left my husband for this man and we are married. He has a daughter, I have 2 sons. This past year I have realized so much about myself and know leaving was a mistake. My now ex husband says he...
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    marriage in deep trouble, what should I do?

    Unfortunately I have been in the place where you are and I did get divorced and I am re-married. I love my husband but I regret getting divorced and am now dealing with the ramifications of that. I am having the same struggles in this marriage as I did in the first and the biggest thing that I...
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    Parents who have kids with ADD or symptoms of it

    Hadn't checked the boards for a few days, but THANK YOU for all the information. Have been trying him on some vitamin suppliments...not dyes, but calcium and magnisiun...as well as amino acids. He is doing better keeping his hands to himslf but he is still easily angered. Long haul ahead, but...
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    Parents who have kids with ADD or symptoms of it

    I would really appreciate that. I have read things to regarding dyes and such. Reading labels is what I am doing now and I cannot believe the amount of sugar that is in everything...and those things that do not are so expensive. Man, so much for a decent food budget. It is easier and CHEAPER to...
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    Parents who have kids with ADD or symptoms of it

    I have been struggling this year with my 6 year old son with his behavior in school. Had a meeting with his teachers yesterday and was encouraged my their reactions to him and they believe he may have a problem 'controlling' his impulsive behavior. They suggest that he get tested for ADD, not...
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    trying to "blend" this family (fairly long)

    Praise the Lord!!!!!!!!!:amen: Hubby did not leave for travel Sunday night. Wound up coming home and we talked for hours. He did have to leave Monday morning but things were better. We talked last night for a few hours and he really is trying to listen and muttle through things. No it is not all...
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    trying to "blend" this family (fairly long)

    The MIL...okay that is a double edged sword and my fault for not elaborating further...Part of this too is just an assumption on my part... The comment that he made about his mother was one of which she made to him directly and was not specifically about me but in reference to something that I...
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