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Recent content by jtrane88

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    emotional abuse, please help!

    Thanks for the advice guys :) Well i'm 18 (of age) in November, but I have to continue school til June 2011. Until then I can't support myself. I'm staying with a friends' family for the first month of going back to the UK and I'll contact the right people from there I think. I got really angry...
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    emotional abuse, please help!

    well she has to stay in holland because of money/pension reasons etc, and i cant stay in holland because of school, money and other personal reasons. my mum accepts the situation and she would help me out to be happy in england, but she cant come herself and its already final that im going...
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    emotional abuse, please help!

    A situation has arised that I may have to move back and live with my dad, who is emotionally abusive towards me. I'm currently living in Holland and I'm moving back to england in 4 weeks. I'm staying with a friend for the first month to settle in and sort the situation out with my dad. I've been...
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    OCD or not?

    thanks for the advice :) I already have a counselor for depression, i can ask her if she knows anything, or if she could find out for me. Meanwhile websites are a good idea yes, thanks!
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    OCD or not?

    Hey everyone! I'm just a little confused about whether something is an act of OCD or not... I know someone with OCD continually washes their hands because of it. But what about someone that doesnt like to wash their hands? Like if someone doesn't like to get their hands wet at all cos they...
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    help me! [Moved from Teen Christian Advice forum]

    Well i can't explain properly on here why i can't tell my mum. I REALLY dont like her, gradually, more and more hatred towards her for at least 5 years now. I know it's in the commandments to honour your parents but I really just can't. Same with my dad, i had a fight with him about a year ago...
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    Very depressed

    i feel your pain, i'm like that too. Even if there are people around, it still feels like there's no one. :(
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    Comment by 'jtrane88' in media '19.jpg'

    i agree, it is a cute picture! You look like a typical english guy actually hehe... whether you are british or not idk, but you remind me of a lot of my british guy friends.
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    help me! [Moved from Teen Christian Advice forum]

    well i had it before, last year though. There were things happening to me and around me that made me upset but i can't explain them on this forum. It came back again after new year and i can't explain why, cos i have no idea myself. Nothing has happened to cause this like it did before :s. Just...
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    help me! [Moved from Teen Christian Advice forum]

    I asked some friends about seasonal affective disorder and they said it wasn't real and just a psychological thing... not something thats causing my cutting and suicidal feelings. I was thinking of going to a docter, but the only thing is... I really don't want my mum to find out, it'll just...
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    help me! [Moved from Teen Christian Advice forum]

    Hey! I'm 17 now and just moved away from england to holland. I struggled with depressive and suicidal feelings on and off the past 2 years being in england. Since July last year I've been feeling a lot better and when i moved i was totally happy, until about new year. All of a sudden the...
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    My friends and what to do?

    I know i'm only young and don't have the experience with marriage and kids... but i know if you're always busy, you can still find some time to chat or meet up with old friends if they really care. Tell him how you feel, see what he says. But don't spend too much time and brood on it, it'll make...
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    me and my husky!

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