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Recent content by jthree78

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    Help!! Need advise.

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    Stuggling with loosing old self

    I have been walking with Christ for three years now. I would say in the last year to year and a half I have really dug in and gotten to know christ deeper. The thing I struggle with and makes me quite sad though is I am not who I used to be (Good thing!!!). Now I am struggling with who I am...
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    Help!! Need advise.

    Thank you all for your thoughts. God has blessed us with a community like this. I think I will discuss it further with her and try to determine what is going to be the least stressful for her. I was reading my bible today and God reminded me to trust him. I pray God blesses you all! Thank You.
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    Help!! Need advise.

    Thank you all for your help!! I would help them find an apartment, however the older bother was in the process of building a new home for his wife and kids before she decided to end their marriage. Him and the younger brother have hopes to buying the home together as an investment. I don't know...
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    Lusting ex-boyfriend

    Paulus7 is correct! You MUST stop all communication with your ex-boyfriend. You have a commitment to your husband and there is no way you can keep the relationship going with your ex now that he has started to fill a need your husband is not meeting. You will end up taking it further that you...
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    Help!! Need advise.

    Hello, I am struggling with something that might seem trivial to some. My wife and I are six months pregnant. Her brother's wife is leaving him and has kicked him out, her younger brother was living with him, now they are both living with us. It has been 6 months now, and I have been told the...