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Recent content by JSMencer

  1. J

    is divorce my only option??? please help

    thats some advice...... and actually i thought about that.... Also to the one who posted about 3 back or anyone, what is an "open" marriage? I never heard of that. if it means be open and honest, we usually are with each other. Thanks for everything though everyone who has posted...
  2. J

    is divorce my only option??? please help

    i kno its a bad sign.... she said ts only been twice but thats in 2 years. any one else want to let me kno their opinion
  3. J

    is divorce my only option??? please help

    i dont think that she knows what she is doing is wrong. I dont know. Each day that passes i feel farther away from her. I also feel she doesnt want me around anymore.
  4. J

    what are blessings

    ohh ok, thanks a bunch
  5. J

    what are blessings

    how do you bless, and what are blessings for?
  6. J

    is divorce my only option??? please help

    I need some advice, and i appreciate any given. My wife and i are currently married, for almost 2 years. We got married i was 21, she was 19. Kinda young, but who cares. About a month ago, she tells me she isnt happy with our marriage, and she wants to move to NJ. my family owns a business...
  7. J

    Help? Stepping down from worship leader

    i know its our responsibility to grow closer to God not the church, but when i say grow i'm not talking about growing to a church, although i guess it may have sounded like that. I guess what I am trying to say is we can't keep focus sometimes on the sermon, and our preacher likes to preach...
  8. J

    Is it Wrong?

    Is it wrong if you are in music ministry to Use your tithe to help make the music ministry in your church better, or help your own part in ministry grow? Like purchasing equipment you could really use to help your ministry grow?
  9. J

    Help? Stepping down from worship leader

    thank you for everything so far, anymore advice is still appreciated. My wife and I have been praying about this for quiet sometime now, and we both feel like we are not growing, and could use a different church to help us grow.
  10. J

    Help? Stepping down from worship leader

    I am currently the only worship leader in my church with my wife, and we are having a hard time growing in the church. We have been thinking about stepping down from worhsip, and looking for a different church. How do i go about telling our pastor that. I feel obligated to the church because...