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Recent content by JRO116

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    Relationship advice. Don't know if this is what we want..

    Me and my gf have been dating for a little over a year. We love each other, both born again believers, attend church and bible studies together, read scripture together and everyone around us knows us as being a godly couple. But for some reason, we both feel off. like something isn't right...
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    My GF has a not so clean past....

    move on as in leave what she's done in the past
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    My GF has a not so clean past....

    here's what I'm struggling with now...I don't know her full past...how many guys she's slept with, and anything else involved with that...do I ask her, and find out the whole truth? God knows our past and still loves us...do I face my insecurity that will come with it, and find out anyway, and...
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    My GF has a not so clean past....

    nail on the head..I truly have forgiven her. it's just forgetting about it that's hard..like I'm not angry or bitter towards her, it just pops up into my head and it annoys me
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    My GF has a not so clean past....

    and it bothers me still. Shes slept with more than a few guys..this was before i was in the picture..but since i met her, we been to church every weekend, regulalry study the bible, and she was baptized 2 weeks. ago...i know youre a new creation when ou are in christ, but knowing abou ther past...
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    I want a Godly relationship with this girl...

    Thanks for your reply. No hard feelings on the bluntness at all. I mean this in a humble way, But i am pretty strong in my walk with God. EVen in the past relationship, when id try to read and pray with her, she wasnt so interested...me and this new girl almost got to the point where we'd fall...
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    I want a Godly relationship with this girl...

    So im coming off a very ungodly relationship. we had sex all the time. while i was a believe and knew it was wrong, i compromised with her. she was a sunday christian and didnt do anything else to grow her faith. without going into to much detail, God truly ended that relationship. this was a...
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    Is there proof that Jesus's disciples were real people?

    Another thing, realize that there literally is no new question that hasnt already been answered. I use to struggle with "proof" questions. research for yourself, and you will find it. It sounds like you were in the same place i was a few years ago. theres alot of good evidence out there that...
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    Is there proof that Jesus's disciples were real people?

    Yes you can. we live in an age of skepticism. So ask yourself, what kind of proof you are expecting. World history, not just christian history, counts reliable proof as written documents. most historians will tell you paul really wrote the epistles, and the early disciples really existed and...
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    I need your advice about witnessing

    theres answers out there bro! you cant really use the bible against people like this, because they dont believe in it in the first place...but good thing for us, we dont need the bible to prove God is true. because he is the absoulte truth! You can tell him dont blame christianity for the...
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    Why is God silent?

    based on my experience, ive felt like god is silent when i wasnt reading the bible. it was a 1 way relationship, where i thought just praying was enough. and that isnt the best for your relationship with god. remember, the bible is god speaking to humanity, so he is never silent..is God gonna...
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    Need advice on which church I should go to

    well i brought 2 people to the church and did bible studies with them..and they stopped going because the other members were annoying to them.so yeah, they have a reputation of being super annoying already. and when they ask for their sunday morning offering, they sound super pushy.even to the...
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    Need advice on which church I should go to

    i read your reply with a smile on my face because everything you said described how i feel lol. The discipleship this church has with the "mature" christians doesn't seem as good to me. not to sound self righteous at all, but hanging around the "mature" christians of the younger group, i feel...
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    Need advice on which church I should go to

    thanks for your reply. Im pretty stable in my faith. one thing i feel about the young church, is their so focused on making disciples and doing bible studies with people, but its the same series of studies everytime....at my old church, they did bible studies on different books every 2 months...
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    Need advice on which church I should go to

    both are non denominational churches, so yeah, that isnt an issue.