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Recent content by JPSousa

  1. J

    I really, really, miss my wife

    Wow! I'm so, so sorry to hear of your loss of your girl on the 5th. And so young. I've been 7 weeks out and there is some marginal improvement in crying, sobbing, fear, anxiety and lonliness. I share in your comments: We also did everything together; we were 'joined at the hip' others would say...
  2. J

    I really, really, miss my wife

    From their perspective in heaven ...being ETERNAL and all, we will be joined together in just moments. I've read it's like our departed just being out of sight in another room --we'll be together forever in a 'twinkling of an eye.' How we manage within the time dimension we are in is the...
  3. J

    I really, really, miss my wife

    I just completed one month of not having S around after 52 years of knowing her and loving her; I can identify with every single expresssion of love you have in your message. This is so painful. I pray it gets better with time.
  4. J

    When did you remove your wedding ring?

    That's interesting. Something to bear in mind. Does anyone else recognize them as such?
  5. J

    When did you remove your wedding ring?

    That's the sort of practical stuff I need now as I struggle with the tears and sobs. Seems reasonable; just wait 'til it feels right.
  6. J

    When did you remove your wedding ring?

    It's only been a month since she's gone after 52 years together. I stare at my wedding ring and think 'what does this mean now?' I'm in no rush to remove it but I am curious about how others have dealt with/deal with this symbol of commitment.