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Recent content by Joyfully_Broken

  1. J

    Struggling for Direction- Advice Welcome

    Thank you all very much for your insight and encouragement -- means more to me than you know. Feels weird to post a "hail mary" on a random forum, but it seems to bring some objectivity to a situation I've admittedly been overprocessing in my mind. E., completely agree about implementing...
  2. J

    Struggling for Direction- Advice Welcome

    Thank you so much! Glad to have found this place. Yes, we are both very involved in our church, and have met with our pastor. He advised to seek counseling with the person we are seeing now.
  3. J

    Struggling for Direction- Advice Welcome

    First and foremost, thank you deeply, for sacrificing your time to read this post. I will be as brief as possible to honor that. I've been married for 10+ years and met online when we were teens. Thought it would be a success story, and perhaps still could be, but the mountain we are facing has...