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Recent content by Joyfull

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    Expanding on Yes or No

    I have a teen son and daughter, and there is no way I would let them have a member of the opposite sex in their bedroom. I would not even let them have a member of the opposite sex over at all unless I can keep an eye on them.
  2. J

    Victoria Secret thoughts

    Absolutely, and I do not think it would be that way if women were aware of how big a problem it is. Until this problem is brought out into the light men and boys will be too ashamed to admit they need help and wives and mothers will not even know their husbands and sons need help. That is why I...
  3. J

    Victoria Secret thoughts

    Yes, a number of us are going through the same educational process for husbands and sons. A book for wives that is really good is Every Heart Restored; for Husbands Every Man's Battle; for 9/10 year-old boys Preparing your Son for Every Man's Battle, for teens and single men Every Young Man's...
  4. J

    Victoria Secret thoughts

    You are so blessed to have such a husband. Did he do this on his own, or did he have some kind of teaching about guarding his eyes and thoughts?
  5. J

    Victoria Secret thoughts

    Well, I have a 15 year-old daughter and I do not let her buy there for all of the reasons mentioned above. Another big reason is VS by their ads, pictures in their windows, and their catalogues tempt millions of boys and men to lust. Males have a really hard time resisting lust and VS exposes...
  6. J

    What Do I Do Now?

    I am glad--but not glad--to find others have had this problem too. My son has not had a problem on line--we share the computer and I check where he goes. But I did find a swimsuit issue (Sports Illustrated) in his room, which upset me very much. Do you think I am over reacting? Do you think it...
  7. J

    Inappropriate?

    Thanks everyone for your comments.
  8. J

    Inappropriate?

    Do you recall how your mother handled it?
  9. J

    Inappropriate?

    I found a Sports Illustrated Swimsuit edition in my 13-year-old son's room today. I looked through it and it really disturbed me to see those girls displayed so immodestly. But what disturbs me more is thinking about my son lusting over them. I want to talk to him about it, but want to cool down...