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Recent content by jonvian

  1. J

    Dealbreaker?

    bail out! that's my honest advice. i grew up in a holy roller type church and i accepted it until in my early twenties when i began to question my faith all together and finally researched the conservative approach to scripture, which i noticed to be clearly true. for a woman to be forced to...
  2. J

    Need help deciding what qualities should matter when considering a relationship.

    all of that is great advice. thank you. i can see where it might seem like i'm worrying too much. the thing is, my situation is a little diffferent, i will only be able to spend 3 or 4 weeks with this woman and one time only unless we decide to marry.
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    Need help deciding what qualities should matter when considering a relationship.

    brian, thanks for that. i think you're right. 'if' she lacks any at all in the fun department, something that is hard to determine because of the distance, everything else about her personality drives me crazy in a good way, as far as i can tell. i'd be glad to help her loosen up in time if she...
  4. J

    Need help deciding what qualities should matter when considering a relationship.

    cutie, thanks. she divorced me. i'm not sure if i made that clear in my first post. she had an emotional rage/outburst toward me over little things and sometimes no reason at all. these happened every couple of weeks for the duration of the marriage. my feelings for her never had a chance to...
  5. J

    Virginity /Celibacy ? help :(

    Great advice. What happened to Christianity in this country?
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    Need help deciding what qualities should matter when considering a relationship.

    I honestly don't know and I feel like I need advice on this. My ex wife left me over a year ago and I'm now open minded to another relationship. My ex was overbearing, controlling, hot tempered and didn't seem capable of being or staying in love, at least not with me. She really didn't seem to...