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Recent content by john_smith

  1. J

    my dad abused me

    It happened only once, it wasn't a lapse of judgement it was abuse, I don't want to ever see and talk to my dad ever again
  2. J

    my dad abused me

    I'm 28 now, yes my mum saw but straight away she stopped him, and I remeber it clearly and am 100% sure
  3. J

    orwell's 1984 big brother/new world order

    Does anyone here have an interest in the material found on the Net reagarding the mentioning of bible text in realtion to orwell's 1984 big brother/new world order?
  4. J

    my dad abused me

    But my Dad doesn't know I have been and I am and I will been thinking about this
  5. J

    my dad abused me

    sexual abuse, maybe around 20 years ago, a child of 7 doesn't understand, I have been thinking baout it for years now but I have jsut decided now not to talk to and see him, other family memebrs can wonder why but it is his fault and not mine victims of abuse are not to blame at all
  6. J

    my dad abused me

    when I was around 7 I guess I was around that age, my mum and dad were tickling me when my dad began licking my face, that was abuse, I don't know if I can forgive him but never speak to him and see him again I feel I can forgive him but I don't want to see him or speak to him ever again but...