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Recent content by John3:16

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    Wanting My BABY and feels like he wont give it to me.

    I've been here once before asking for prayer.. It may have worked.. But not for what I was asking and praying about.... I am grieving for yet another sad month of inconceiving. We tried to hard, temping, timing, ferning, put all the physical,emotional, mental effort in we could- and its still...
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    Becoming something I regret already

    Hope_0004 vbmenu_register("postmenu_15122311", true); : this isn't about looking @ porn.. this is about my artistic pictures and showing it to some friends.. and its about feeling attracted and confused sometimes towards other women.. its weird.. I've found someone great to talk to about this-...
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    22 and discovered I like girls

    LEE FEY:.. i can see that a bit * about unhealthy relationships with that sex making u turn with them*..... But more of personal experience, and watching others do the same thing * after being abused or harmed in some way- emotionally, physically, phsychologically*... They turn to the...
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    Becoming something I regret already

    Thanks Mr.Cheese. But again- here I am struggling.. I just finished showing numerous pix of my body to a complete stranger- all for him to say " wow, you are beautiful," and then it goes on to more explicit things.... WHY LORD>> WHY...???????????????? I just cant figure this out-- the...
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    Becoming something I regret already

    Goliwog: that is excellent advice... IS as good as done- I am putting it up on the bottom of my computer screen.... BEcause this is where I sin the most. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!! mr.Cheese: What am I going to do? Pray more, resist the urge by avoidance of late night computer use... and boredom...
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    Becoming something I regret already

    I have opted to delete my post. Why? I feel very naked with it here, and I feel as though some very special beautiful people have taken me under their wing to help me. I thank you all for your concern, prayer and replies. I will be diong my best to sort this out :) God Bless Rach
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    22 and discovered I like girls

    What I find the most interesting *coming from my background as well* is the fact that a large majority of men and women interested in the "same sex" have been abused in some way, shape or form. It distorts us I think. My background is nothing to be proud of, growing up with a pedophile as a...
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    I dont know if it was wrong or not.

    Nathan, I think its a hard one to answer.. I agree it is lust. But I dont feel wrong when I do it. I am in the same boat "should I?"... its a hard question. I mean its lust when we make love to our husbands and wives, its sexual lust and love lust. So to me, I dont feel wrong...
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    Post annoying things Christians do and you dislike them for.

    I am in complete agreement with you.. We have no right to decide. and terri's case is exceptionally hard to decipher and we have to leave it up to God. I dont even know how to feel about it most days. I just prayed for her to be with him. AMEN Rach
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    Post annoying things Christians do and you dislike them for.

    I'm sorry... I guess i feel as much a hypocrite as they are. I left there... I now belong to my husbands church and i love it there, altho i dont go hardly ever anymore. Lost is a good word for me. Sorry for taking it so personally.. thanks for putting up with me :) Rach:clap:
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    Post annoying things Christians do and you dislike them for.

    I dont appreciate being mocked.. I was trying to answer honestly. I do not go to church to judge all. and I am only human as you are. I stopped going there because I was unable to see past it at that time. I am different and better for it now. I dont find this a joke, and I find your...
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    i will be a 'non' believer from noW!

    Naasthik--- wow.. I have prayed for you... for the Lord to help you. Your view does not make sense, but maybe I am just ignorant. I think that Jesus is not just some fun luving guy who ran around passing out beer coupons and daisies... Your perspective on him and our God is somewhat muffled...
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    Post annoying things Christians do and you dislike them for.

    hmm.. not to many posts I guess...... I dont really have anything bad to say about christians per sey... I have more of a problem with hypocritical ppl calling themselves christians while they judge others, but go to church every sunday and slowly pick away at the great christians whom are...
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    Something Nice About The Person Before You

    has a terrific rep. and has an extremely cute PET DINO :) hehe.. I am working towards a pet as well..... AWSOME.. God Bless, Rachael