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Recent content by jmbosh

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    Pray for ex GF to come back?

    Hey all, I posted a while back about a break up I just went through. Thank you to everyone that replied. It helped. Now I would like some examples or others experiences or even some real good advice with getting back successfully with an ex after a break up. I have been praying for myself to...
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    Need break up advice

    I know the situation could always be worse and I'm thankful that it's not. I hope you aren't speaking from personal experience. I have friends in about the same boat and I know how hard that can be.
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    Courting Couple Need Advice (*Warning, Graphic*)

    Well, in my opinion from seeing things from her side, if she truly has asked for forgiveness from God about her past that burden has been lifted from her. Where she might feel regret she should feel ok about how she's been since then. I believe in a little phrase called "second virginity", in my...
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    Need break up advice

    Hey Stan, I agree that you shouldn't be unequally yoked. But at the same time don't you think that instead of just saying good bye you should do what you can to lead her to the lord? In my opinion, unless she's done something horrible to you, you should continue to love the person and pray for...
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    Girlfriend was Unfaithful, What do I do

    I was just left by my girlfriend not too long ago. She went back to an ex that had cheated on her and wasn't a good person to her. That broke my heart and all I could do was want to do anything to get her back. I still am struggling. I was in the same shoes as you, we didn't officially live...
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    Need break up advice

    I am pretty sure you are right about God allowing it so I can grow. What a harsh lesson though. As far as not talking goes, I don't think I can do that haha. That would make me feel like I'm holding a grudge against her, which I'm not. She does't really have any other christian influences in her...
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    Need break up advice

    Seashell - what is missionary dating? To clear things up, she is now back with her ex. So which makes me the ex bf now. It was one of those where they had a long history and we didn't but got a long amazingly and when we can keep it to any conversation other than our relationship situation we...
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    Need break up advice

    Hey thanks for the reply! I don't think talking with him is an option nor would it do any good. I have talked to her about everything. It's strange but awesome that we can have a relationship like this, but we talked about her thoughts on her going back to him/staying with me. It was clear to me...
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    Need break up advice

    Well I hope I'm in the right section for this. I'm new to writing a post too. So here it goes... I was in a relationship for only 7 months with a girl that was a non believer. The timing, how we met and the immediate connection we had was to both of us a pretty good sign we met for a reason...