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Recent content by Jim2011

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    I can't find assurance or peace.

    I understand how you feel, and I wish I could help. It sounds like you are facing some of the same problems I am and are asking some of the same questions. I can only hope that God really is forgiving. I am sorry that I can't say more than "You are not alone"
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    Hi I just wanted to know everybody's opinion.

    I'm sorry, I don't know how to answer your question. I wonder if I am asking a similar question myself. How do I communicate with God when I dont know how to hear him? Would anyone else care to answer the question? There are at least two people looking for an answer.
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    Failed as a Christian

    If you find the answers to your questions, will you share them with me? I believe you are asking some of the same questions I have, and have phrased them better :) While I realize that this does not help your search, its nice to know I am not the ONLY one with these questions. Thank you
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    (Somewhat rambling letter) advice needed

    How do I let God be in charge? I feel some days like I am walking on a tightrope, trying my best not to fall into various sins. (Lust mostly, at least that is the one I'm most aware of). Is repentance supposed to feel this...difficult? Someone said in a earlier post that their desires...
  5. J

    What's your opinion on vulgar language?

    If those are the only words you know, or perhaps the words you use most often, you might want to improve your vocabulary. Just an idea :)
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    2 Questions

    I cant really answer either question as well...oh heck, I cant answer either one really. I have mentioned to God that I am uncertain how to visualize him when I talk to him. While he might have answered my question, am I too....afraid to listen? As for the other..... I worry that I am a...
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    Tell Me Again That God Isn’t Angry

    Ok, if you suspect that you are lukewarm...spiritually, how do you....Ok, me, I change that? Or does God change that? I sort of understand how you feel. Its not quite the same for me, but the idea is similar. Thanks for posting, its nice to know I am not the only one who is....confused.
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    Why was christianity so dark in the past?

    Im sort of divided on the answer. I wonder if the sermons mached the enviornment. Judging from the pictures I have seen of midieval paintings many people looked....unhappy...life back then was more difficult. Was life more dificult for Rev. Matters? Was there more misery than there is...
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    mastabating

    I believe he makes some good points.
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    Has anyone here taken the GRE?

    Hi, Im not sure which time zone Mississippi is in, but in the Eastern time zone it is about 10:27... The only advice I can give you right now is...get some sleep. It will go better if you are not tired.. Tomorrow before the test, take a couple of deep breaths, and quietly say a short prayer...
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    Should schizophrenics get more than one user ID?

    Yes, we should have more than one account... Why? Because we exist, that is why.. I dont agree. BOTH OF YOU SHUT UP! I AM TRYING TO GET A NAP!
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    mastabating

    I;m sorry, Could we take this back to the origional question please? What I belive JCMJ was asking is, If you can not be with the one you love, can you dream that you are? If people touch for stress relief with no daydreams about sex, is that less of a sin? The sex drive seems...
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    mastabating

    There are times I really wish I knew the answer to that, and then thare are times I really DONT want to know the answer. I remember sometime back someone posted a question, "Is everything a sin" <Sigh> the topic makes me wonder. If I daydream about what it could be like to live with someone...
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    Introverting, closing up, hiding in your shell

    if I was any more introverted, I would need glasses on the back of my head. This is discouraging.
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    Did god make perverts

    ((((Raven!))))