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Recent content by jenny413

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    It's me again-a little venting!!!!!

    AAAAAAAAGHHHHH!!!!Just had yet another fight with my BPD husband! 18 years I have been sucked into his insane twisted anger control. How do I stop??? He starts yelling at me or insulting me over something little and I just can't keep my mouth shut. I don't want my kids to think the way he talks...
  2. J

    need good advice

    Thank you for responding. It's such a huge relief that after 18 years I have someone to talk to who understands the horribly insane rollercoaster I am living in! Which book is better to read "Stop Walking on Eggshells!" or "I Hate You, Don't Leave Me!" or both? If he won't go until he has had...
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    need good advice

    Hello, this is my first forum posting. I never would have done this but I just recently came across a description of BPD and for the first time in almost 18 years of being with my husband have a name to his madness. In all these years it never seemed I could find any description that fit him. So...