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Recent content by jennab85

  1. J

    Not feeling good enough/self-esteem issues

    The reason I never offered to be a greeter or take care of the guestbook is because in a lot of the weddings the bride and groom select those people. I don't shut myself away from others in incidents in which I don't get asked.
  2. J

    Not feeling good enough/self-esteem issues

    I have had several close relatives and friends that didn't ask me to be in their weddings. I have had several close relatives and friends that never asked me to be in their weddings and it hurt and I think I want to be any wedding that I can feel that I've mattered to someone. I just want to...
  3. J

    Not feeling good enough/self-esteem issues

    I'm dependable and trustworthy. I have never been fired from a job and I have help organize family parties/events.
  4. J

    Not feeling good enough/self-esteem issues

    I have done those things and they do make me feel better about myself at times. I want to be apart of weddings so I will feel better about the relationships I have with people and that way I know that I matter to them.
  5. J

    Not feeling good enough/self-esteem issues

    It is very painful and a lot of people who I talk to this about really don't understand how it is for me.
  6. J

    Not feeling good enough/self-esteem issues

    I do understand the part about denominations and baptisms. Most of my friends and relatives are Catholic. I have heard several people who have said that being in weddings isn't a big deal. To me being a wedding would be a big deal because I am very awkward person, I'm very short. I'm only 4"9...
  7. J

    Not feeling good enough/self-esteem issues

    Please don't think I'm weird. I have had self-esteem problems most of my life and I feel like I'm not good enough to be apart of anything or things that my friends and relatives have been apart of. I have never been asked to be in weddings, baptisms, similar events. I always had some hope...
  8. J

    Not feeling good enough/self-esteem issues

    I do get what you are saying Luther. I do get invited to the weddings and baptisms. But it is always a little sad for me to see the wedding parties always hanging out and doing things at the wedding while I'm just a guest. I have always wanted to experience being in a wedding at least once. I...
  9. J

    Not feeling good enough/self-esteem issues

    Please don't think I'm weird. I have had self-esteem problems most of my life and I feel like I'm not good enough to be apart of anything or things that my friends and relatives have been apart of. I have never been asked to be in weddings, baptisms, similar events. I always had some hope...