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Recent content by JBH

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    Having a hard time making friends

    Hey all. Figured I'd post in here about a struggle I am facing. At some point, I decided that I really wanted to improve my life. I became aware of the idea of proximity, or as Jim Rohn puts it: "You are the average of the people you spend the most time with." Well, I decided that I wanted to...
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    When do you buy games?

    At this point, I neither pay attention to release or sales. I know that if I buy a game as soon as it comes out, then I am paying more than I really should. Yet, if I buy games just because they are on sale, I am spending money on games I likely won't play. Rather, I only buy games when I...
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    One big (bad) quality that’s keeping you single

    I'll put a few. 1. I am a very intentional and serious person. I hate small talk, and I don't do things based on impulse or what I feel is right at the time. This can be very intimidating and comes off as really intense. 2. I am afraid of telling people how I feel. I've had so many girls in my...
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    The last enemy that will be destroyed is death.

    It's interesting. People around me have always feared death, considered it a bad thing, etc. Yet I view death as not just a natural thing, as it happens to all things (all animals die, our lifestyles eventually change, rocks eventually erode, the sun will eventually die out, etc.), but a good...
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    Good Study Habits

    I have been out of college for quite some time, but I wanted to contribute. 1) Dedicate an area to be used SOLELY for studying. If you study in the same place that you do other activities (eat, sleep, play video games, watch tv, etc), it will be very easy to become distracted. 2) Constantly...
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    The Most Important Books You've Read

    What are the top 5 most important/useful/meaningful/inspiring books that you have read outside of the Bible? What is something major you have learned from each?
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    Emotional Impact

    Pokemon, Zelda, and Super Smash Bros were my childhood. So many memories. Dark Souls 1-3 and BloodBorne helped me develop a love for challenge, which has contributed a lot to my growth as a person. Persona 5 helped me become interested in psychology and helping people change for the better. I...
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    Hello from Colorado

    Yep! It hasn't been too long, but I've already noticed a bunch of benefits. I'm less distracted, I'm not mindlessly scrolling, I feel like I have more time, it has helped stay away from NSFW material, and I am feeling happier.
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    Hello from Colorado

    Hey all, nice to meet you! I'm Jeff. I'm 29, male, single, and located near Denver, Colorado. My Myer's Briggs personality type is INFJ, I am an Enneagram 1, and my Hogwarts house is Ravenclaw. I have a master's degree in Earth Science, used to teach high school, and now I work in the addiction...