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Recent content by Jaybo

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    how do I cope with this?

    The longer what takes? How do I create an opening in her heart? Expand on why I left her to who? Her or here?? I appreciate the advice but please explain further.
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    how do I cope with this?

    Thank you UnitynLove for the wonderful post and encouragement. I will print, read and read this until it fills my conciousness and I can put it into action. I soooo appreciate all of everyones prayers, advice and encouragement. I know this is just a online forum but real people are behind these...
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    how do I cope with this?

    Thats an amazing story AwsomeMachine. You are much stronger than me. I did ask for her forgiveness but she would never forgive me. She only critisizes me. I must admit I still feel some guilt mainly for what my children have been through and also now she is very sick with MS....she blames me for...
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    how do I cope with this?

    I have been divorced for eight years. My ex refuses to speak to me, sort of a punishment type of thing because I left her. Unfortunately it puts our two children right in the middle. My oldest son has basically been brainwashed to hate me. He didnt seem to hate me, but when I could no longer...
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    Am I bi-polor or have serious depression?

    Forget the demons...you clearly have a physiological condition.
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    Help for those Depressed ....

    Lost a custody battle for my daughter...she cried and cried. Her stepdad is abusive to her. My finances are gone. I have no motivation to run my business. Ex-wife has turned my son against me...hasnt spoke to me in months.This is a nightmare. I feel hopeless. What do you do when you cant ever...
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    Help for those Depressed ....

    Im really depressed too....want to turn it all off.....
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    Divorce Hell ..H-E-L-P !!!!!!!!

    Does anyone want or need to talk about your divorce and child custody situation. Mine has been a real challange. I know this is not a very positive subject, but unfortunately it is a reality for many Christians. I confess that I have a lot of resentment and anger towards my ex and I am having...