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Recent content by Jason Cleaver

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    Parents with children with disabilities: how did you react?

    In the UK we are very well supported. Our son gets a good allowance as he qualifies for the highest rate. This means he can pay for 1:1 support and excellent accommodation. I certainly don't mind having a slightly higher tax rate to allow this level of social care.
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    Need help , loneliness is killing me.

    My mum used to say "to find something, stop looking for it, and let it find you". It took me a while to get my head around. It seems that if you want to find your car keys, looking for them is the only solution available to you as the things aren't going to get up and head in your direction on...
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    The Plan of Salvation Includes the Muslims?

    I have many muslim friends who I can honestly say are no less christian than the Christians I know. They have grown up in a different culture with different traditions and upbringing. If there is a God, then as far as I'm concerned, all people are God's children and all those children are...
  4. Jason Cleaver

    What are your favourite smells?

    I love the smell of eagles. They smell a bit like old canvas tents. Hard to describe. Sniff one and see. Probably best to go for the back of the neck. Safest that way.
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    Parents with children with disabilities: how did you react?

    They are a gift - not only to us, but to everyone else too! People we meet out and about are often scared, they don't know what to say or even how to interact with someone who is different.
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    Parents with children with disabilities: how did you react?

    Our son is 24 now - and we knew he was autistic from the age of 2 or 3. He's severely autistic and has no language and only uses 2 or 3 hand signs. Not being able to communicate makes life difficult for him at times. People say the usual "I don't know how you cope" things but it's never been...