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Recent content by jamesp85

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    I'm evil

    I know how being lonely can really mess with your mind as I was alone for years, developed many bad habits and still have some. I found ways to make me feel more pure which helps me with the rest of the day. Things that make me feel pure would be reading the bible, listening to preaching over...
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    I have a problem with porn while im married

    Thank you. I will check this web site out.
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    I have a problem with porn while im married

    I don't know why this is so hard to get over. I have been married a couple of years now and I still have a strong urge to look at porn. Afterwards I feel terrible and generally have to get a strong drink because those urges come back to when I'm angry at myself, " former alcoholic" I really need...
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    Feeling totally crap.

    I know how hard that can be. I used to feel like that and sometimes I still do. What I do is read 3 chapters of the bible everyday to calm myself down. If I don't then some times my anger will get the best of me and I have on many occasions felt like God wasn't real because of my anger. That...
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    Really need some help

    Reading some verses of the bible calms me down. I try to read 3 chapters a day and if I don't I start to lose control and to some things that can hurt me and my family
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    Prayers for our relationship

    I am sad to hear. Sadly some people are like that. Advice I could give you is give it time. If he is a great guy you might not find another one like him. These days good guys are hard to find. I have a similar situation and I learned my new life is more important to leave just because of some...
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    I don't see any future

    Hey, I have always been in that boat too with my sister going to a private school that's 12k a year while I went to public. My parents gave her 15k for her wedding while I am on my own. It was always like that and my family never sent me to the doctor when I wad sick but always her. I learned it...